4 Benefits of Marriage Counseling
Quick question: When’s the last time that you and your spouse went to see a marriage counselor? If the answer is “never” or “We’re not in trouble so why would we need to go?” this is an article that you definitely need to read.
Although there does tend to be an assumption that marriage counseling is only for couples in crisis, the reality is that the marriage counseling process is something that can prove to be beneficial for any couple whether they’re newlyweds, new parents or even husbands and wives who’ve been married for 30 years or more.
So, just what are some of the proven advantages that come with going to see a marriage counselor? Below, we will include four of them. Hopefully by the time you’re done reading this, you’ll want to make an appointment to see a marriage counselor in the efforts of making your own marriage even better just as soon as you possibly can.
1) It can help you to resolve matters
Whether it’s finances, intimacy, communication, scheduling or any other issue that you and your spouse are having, sometimes it can be hard to come to a resolve on your own. This is especially the case when both of you have totally opposite views on these matters. Being that a marriage counselor is not emotionally connected to your marriage but at the same time is studied and skilled when it comes to marital relationships, they can be objective when it comes to finding a resolution that will ultimately be best for the relationship. That is always helpful when a couple is looking for solutions to their problems.
2) It can help you to avoid future major problems
Although there are lots of published reports which indicate that one of the best things that you can do for your marriage is to see a counselor or therapist (at least a few times per year), these same studies will also tell you that the sooner you choose to do it, the better. Unfortunately, a lot of couples tend to wait until their marriage is basically on “life support” before seeing a counselor. Their hope is that the counselor can “save” their marriage. That is actually not a marriage counselor’s job. They are simply there to help you to get the tools that you need to save your own marriage. But the more proactive you are in seeing them before things become too trying, the more they can assist you and the better off you and your spouse will be.
3) It is a safe place to vent out
Out of all of the marriage counseling benefits mentioned so far, this one might seem like an odd one; but that doesn’t make it any less relevant. Another great thing about marriage counselors is that they can serve as a mediator if there are things that you and/or your spouse have either been too scared to share or have not been able to get a clear and final resolve on. Holding things in is not good for your emotional well-being and a marriage counseling session is a good setting to vent. Plus, a marriage counselor can help you to learn how to express your feelings in a more productive kind of way.
4) It is not as expensive as you might think
If you’re almost convinced that you should go to see a marriage counselor but your budget is tight, that’s actually another advantage that comes with going to see one. Statistics reveal that not only is it cheaper than seeing a psychiatrist or psychologist but it tends to require less time and be more effective than going to see a counselor alone. Also, if you happen to be in a dire financial situation, many marriage counselors are open to working out a payment plan.
As you can see, there are so many marriage counseling benefits that come from seeing a counselor. It’s one of the keys to having the kind of marriage that you’ve always wanted—and are so deserving of!
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