Relationships are full of surprises, and they often have their ups and downs. What’s important, however, is that the partners don’t get bored, and manage to keep the love burning. And one of the best ways to go about it is to send sexy texts to the person you love.
Calling is a passé. Sexting is in. In fact, sexy texts are best at turning partners on, seducing them or dropping suggestions about your desires.
Exchanging sensual, and at times outright dirty, seductive text messages for her or him have been known to spice up relationships.
Sexting is like a breath of fresh air that brings on the the dark side of your personality.
Sex messages for her/him or sexting, as some people prefer to call them nowadays, has evolved into an important part of dating. But you need to be aware of how to use it to your advantage. Figure out the kind of sex messages for her that makes her wet, and she will go wild for you every time you do it!
You need to understand the rules of the game if you’re going to win it. Going in without a plan and randomly share sexy texts is likely going to end up turning your girl off. So, before taking a plunge into writing the best sexy texts for her, let’s go over some of the basics.
Here are some sexy texts for her that can make her go wild:
I’m loaded, with work, but I just can’t stop thinking about you.
Now that’s an outright hot pun intended. This is definitely one of the seductive text messages for her which you can share without annoying her too much. It’s naughty, but in a cute way and doesn’t use any dirty words.
Want to come over tonight? I can’t promise I’ll be good though.
Still maintaining a fine balance between outright dirty and sweet, you’re asking her for a date and some good time, with subtle hints of a possibly sexy encounter.
I just can’t stop thinking about the last night.
We are getting there, a simple yet sexy text to remind her of the hot night the two of you shared. It’s a great way to make her feel good and to start her day off with some appreciation.
I have some plans for you tonight
This is the opposite of the example above, for those times when you are anticipating a sexually charged date. Remember: this is going to work only if you are at an advanced stage of a sexual relationship. Don’t create such seductive text messages for her and send them, if your relationship is still nascent.
I love it when you …
Of course, you will need to fill in the blanks here. This can be a sexy text bordering between naughty and outright dirty, so make sure to factor in the age of your relationship while mentioning something that you’ve done together in the past.
What are you wearing tonight?
Yeah, this one’s a classic and for good reason too! It’s a great way to make your intentions clear when starting a conversation, and a great way to test the waters. When you are not sure if she’s into dirty texting, a slightly naughty yet sexy text like this can show you the way.
Can’t wait till you get here so I can pin you to the wall again while I kiss you
Ok, so this one’s a little rough and dramatic as well quite a seductive text message for her, but it gets the job done. Something this sexy is great to let her know exactly what you’re thinking, and it is visual enough for her to feel the heat.
You’re just too good with your hands
Flirtatious, naughty, dirty, this seductive text message for her is all of these rolled into one. Depending on the context, this message, a double entendre, could be totally innocuous and extremely dirty at the same time.
I want you. Now !
Nothing like a straight-forward text that shows her that you’re sexy, you’re turned on, and waiting to take charge. Women hate playing games, and a man who comes across as direct and fearless exudes sexual prowess.
We are sure you get the point.
Here are more sex messages for her that you can use, as long as you are judicious:
- I don’t like sitting here in work when I could be at home doing filthy things to you.
- Why can’t I just be lying beside you in bed instead of studying/working?
- I have a surprise for you later tonight, I think you’re going to like it!
- If I could only wear three items of clothing or less tonight, what would you choose for me?
- I just laid in bed for the last hour thinking about you, guess what I was doing!
- I cleaned the kitchen today, so I’d have room to fuck you on the table.
- Your ass looks just as amazing in those sweatpants as it does in your little black dress.
- I love playing with your hair and your _______
- Do you want a back massage, a foot massage, or both?
- I’d put on music, but I don’t want to drown out the sounds of your sexy little moans.
- Don’t stop me once you come, because I’m planning on giving you multiple orgasms today.
- I bought you a new vibrator, so I can thrust and play with your softness at the same time.
- Do you care if my tongue is between your legs when you wake up in the morning?
- Your mind is just as sexy as your tight little body.
- I can’t decide what part of your body is more delicious. Give me another taste.
- I bought some handcuffs and a blindfold. Should I put them on you or me?
- I baked you some dessert, so you can eat it while I eat you.
- Do you want to have sex in bed or in the bath I just made you?
- Tonight is going to be about pleasure and pain.
- I want to hear you breathing in my ear when I make you reach orgasm.
- Tonight you’re not allowed to reach orgasm until I say so.
- You’re not going to be able to move after I’m finished with you tonight.
- Your heart is going to pulse with complete pleasure tonight.
- I had a hard-on all day because I couldn’t stop thinking of that beautiful face.
- Your laugh turns me on even more than your wetness does.
- I stuck your clothes in the washer, and now I’m going to make out with you on top of it.
- I’ve never gotten so horny just by kissing someone.
- Do you want me to wake you up with breakfast in bed or oral?
- I’m so horny thinking about seeing you later.
- I miss having your arms around me.
- I was thinking about you in the shower this morning!
- I miss you dominating me.
- There is something that makes me crazy wet when you are standing right over me when we’re kissing.
- I tidied up the bedroom, but I don’t mind if you mess up the sheets with me.
- I’m going to go down on you, and I won’t even let you think about returning the favor.
- I miss having you around me.
- I was thinking about you in the bed this morning and saying your name till I hit the big O!
- I miss you smothering me with pleasure.
- I’m so horny thinking about seeing you later.
- I will whisper in your ear to reach orgasm while you dig those sexy nails into my back!
These sexy texts are sure to turn your girl on. You can also come up with sexy jokes or your own version of seductive text messages for her to lay bare your intentions without fearing or facing the possibility of rejection directly.
Dating in this smartphone era can pose some serious challenges, especially if you are just starting out. You don’t want to send her the wrong message, no pun intended!
Of course, you want to let her know that you are into her, but you don’t want to come off as a stalker who floods her phone with a couple of hundred sex messages for her every day. So, how often should you text her? What should you write?
Let’s dig deeper!
You don’t want to text her too much
Sending too many messages, or doing it continuously, isn’t cute. Especially, if you are still in the early days of the relationship. Liking someone does not give you the liberty to message them non-stop.
It can be bothersome, or even annoying, to the person you’re messaging every time. Everyone has a life, which means they have work to do, responsibilities to attend to, chores to finish and personal things to worry about. Constantly texting them, especially sharing sexy texts, may appear exciting to begin with, but could become a burden after some time and can be a huge turn-off.
Don’t complain when they don’t reply to your sexy texts immediately
We know, not getting a reply to a message can be hurt your ego, especially if it is a sexy text which was meant to express your desires openly. But, it helps to realize that most people’s lives don’t always revolve around their phones.
In fact, there are jobs where people aren’t even allowed to use their phones while they are on the clock. Imagine how bothersome it would be for people to break out of a shift only to see several messages, including a couple of sexy texts whining for a response? Not done.
Expecting immediate responses to your sexy texts makes you appear clingy and entitled, things that can make your girl cringe. Don’t blame us if don’t heed this advice and she ends up putting you on ignore pronto.
Create a schedule
We call them “check-ins” these days.
You create, and more importantly, follow, a schedule that respects your girl’s time while allowing you to keep in touch with her. As an example, you can start sending her a simple good morning message every day is part of the schedule.
Keep your sexy messages for her short and sweet, so that it gets her interested and she gets into the habit of expecting these messages, making you a part of her routine. And that’s exactly what you are after.
As time goes by, you will begin to identify the time frames when she is more receptive, even anticipating, your messages helping you establish a more robust texting schedule. This way, you begin to form an important part of her routine, without being a pain or a point of irritation.
That’s the magic potion to tapping into the power of texting in the early days of your relationship.
Act flirty, but not dirty
Making your intentions clear is important. You don’t want to keep sending her feel-good messages all the time and risk getting friend-zoned. If all you do is send good morning messages, chances are she’ll never consider you as a romantic prospect.
So, yes, go ahead and make sure to let her know you’re interested in her by sending flirty and sexy texts or script some highly seductive text messages for her.
Compliment her at every opportunity and let her know you miss her to express that you’re interested in something more than just friendship.
But at the same time, don’t send her dick pics!
Not everyone takes kindly to nudes, especially early on in a relationship, and can turn them off.
Let your relationship take a natural course, and when the time comes, you can type seductive test messages for her and send her with her consent, of course. Dirty sexting will come too all in good time.
That may sound “meh!” but, please, hear us out!
Emojis are an important aspect of texting because they can add levity to the conversation. Since when you text her, you can’t convey your emotions via facial expressions or the tone of voice, it’s possible to get into misunderstandings.
Using the right emoji can convey your feeling better and can add some life to the plaintext message. The ‘kiss emoji’ or the ‘middle-finger’ emoji’ is the perfect example of sharing sexy texts with her. Such emojis will convey the meaning aptly without wasting a single word.
Also, texting or sharing sexy texts virtually have some benefits as well.
Benefits of sexting –
- You can brainstorm each of your seductive text messages for her before sending them away.
- Sexy texts can create sexual tension and throw suggestions if you shy away from verbally expressing them.
- Sexy texts are also ‘training wheels’ for men who enjoy talking dirty.
- Texting gives you time to think and carefully construct sex messages for her without feeling the pressure of the moment.
Alright, enough said!
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