Women are the nourishing beings, the reason the human race continues to thrive. While we understand that like all men, women are also human; most men are completely lost when it comes to understanding women.
A lot of men confuse irrationality with emotional intensity. More often, men come up with such excuses because of they either over-rationalize things or lean to the famous explanation of women being non-understandable enigmas.
The truth of the matter is, as men, women want what is best for them. Unlike most men, women are capable of giving themselves wholly to their life partner and their families.
If anything, women are much easier to understand than men. They understand the importance of connecting with the rest of the human race while men prefer seclusion.
The heart wants what it wants
If you truly want to crack the code to understand women, you must understand what it is that they want.
One important thing for any woman is to be respected by others, especially their partners or family. They don’t just want to be respected as women but rather as individuals – as people.
Women want to be recognized as important individuals with important contributions in their field and/or society. They do not want to be favored as being good female employees; they want to be singled out as being good at whatever they do.
They do not want their gender to factor into the equation.
Yet, they want the respect that they generally receive as being a respectable woman. They don’t necessarily want to be like guys; they just want to be appreciated for the skills and capabilities that they have.
Women are proud of themselves, and while they do not want to be discriminated based on this gender, they want others to see them as women.
This becomes easier to understand when you keep your work life and social like apart.
As far as their career is concerned, women don’t want their sex to be emphasized. However, when it comes to interacting socially, women still want to be treated as women.
One thing that is certain is women want to be respected as women. They do not want to have it put upon them that being a woman is some sort of limitation for them otherwise.
Becoming mind readers?
Another thing that women want is to be understood without having to explain themselves.
Some men might say that they aren’t “mind readers,” but that is what women want. They want to connect at a deeper level with their partner. This requires for their partner to pay a lot of attention to what they say and to value their opinion.
Women don’t want to have to explain to you how and why she is feeling the way she is or why there is a change in her mood.
She expects you to have enough knowledge about what she thinks or wants, to be connected to her well enough, not to need a summary. As long as the man actually listens to the woman and is close to her, then what goes on in her mind will be easily visible.
Women want to be loved and cared for
There’s no doubt that women can take care of themselves, but they still want someone to be looking out for them.
The entire point of being in a relationship is to have a companion who is your partner in crime, someone who will help you achieve your goals, make your dreams come true and have your back at all times.
Women do not want to ask for this sort of affection themselves; they want someone who would happily give them all the love and affection that they deserve. They want a man who would always have her opinion in mind and is thoughtful enough. They want a partner with whom they can establish a connection, a bond that is unbreakable.
Not all women are the same, and their preferences may vary as an individual, but the things mentioned above are the basics that every woman wishes to have and can help men in their pursuit to understand women.