Quiz: What Help Does Your Relationship Need Most Right Now?

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20 Questions | Updated: Oct 09, 2025
1. Do you know the movie, show, or song that instantly lifts your partner’s mood?

Yes, I know it exactly
I think I know, but not sure
Not really
No idea
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2. When you think about your emotional well-being in this relationship, which feels most true?

I generally feel secure and supported
I feel okay most of the time but still on guard sometimes
I often feel drained or anxious
I rarely feel emotionally safe or calm
3. How do you and your partner repair after a disagreement?

We talk calmly and take responsibility
We reconnect eventually but rarely discuss it
It usually gets brushed aside
There’s often blame or lingering tension
4. When boundaries are discussed (like privacy, social time, or communication), how are they received?

They’re respected and discussed openly
They’re sometimes tested or misunderstood
They’re often ignored or challenged
We don’t really talk about boundaries
5. How do you and your partner handle time apart or personal space?

We respect and support each other’s independence
We sometimes struggle but usually work through it
One of us tends to feel anxious or controlling
It often leads to conflict or guilt
6. When you share something that’s upsetting or important to you, how does your partner usually respond?

Listens and validates my feelings
Tries to fix it quickly without fully listening
Gets defensive or dismissive
I often hold back because it doesn’t feel safe to share
7. When you think about respect and safety in your relationship, which feels most true?

I always feel respected and safe
I mostly feel respected, but not always
Sometimes I don’t feel respected
I often feel unsafe or disrespected
8. When it comes to intimacy or Affection, how aligned are you and your partner?

Very aligned; we talk and adjust
Mostly aligned, with small gaps
Often misaligned
Rarely aligned
9. If trust was broken (big or small), how is it usually handled?

We talk it through and rebuild
We try, but it leaves tension
It becomes an ongoing argument
It never feels repaired
10. Do you know your partner’s most important boundary in the relationship?

Yes, we’ve talked about it clearly
I think I know
Not really
No idea
11. The last time you and your partner argued, how did it end?

We talked it through and resolved it
One of us apologized, but the issue lingered
We avoided it instead of solving it
It escalated and felt hurtful or unsafe
12. Do you and your partner talk openly about mental health or personal struggles?

Yes, honestly and openly
Sometimes, but not deeply
Rarely
Never
13. How emotionally connected do you feel to your partner day-to-day?

Very connected
Somewhat connected
Not very connected
Rarely connected
14. Do you know your partner’s biggest dream for the future (career, family, or personal)?

Yes, very clearly
I have a general idea
Not really sure
No idea
15. Do you and your partner usually agree on how to handle money?

Yes, we decide together
We agree most of the time
We often disagree
16. When was the last time your partner showed you genuine appreciation or gave a compliment?

Within the past week
Within the past month
A few months ago
I can’t remember
17. When one of you feels stressed, how does the other usually respond?

Offers support right away
Tries to help, but not fully
Often doesn’t notice until later
Rarely responds with support
18. Do you know what your partner loves about you the most?

Yes, clearly
I think I know
Not really sure
No, I’ve never asked
19. How often do you and your partner spend quality time together without distractions?

Several times a week
About once a week
Once a month or less
Almost never
20. Do you know what habit of yours bothers your partner the most?

Yes, and we’ve talked about it openly
I think so, but not sure
Not really
No idea

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