The Dark Side of Not Being Sexually Attracted to Husband

As much as the title seems like a set of alphabets, it can also turn out to be the reason for the start of a bad story. There are women who are powerful, who can take a stand for themselves.

There are women also, who surrender to the situation. It might be a very normal thing to find a woman telling you a story of how they were sexually abused, nowadays.

It has become a very common situation and prevails like a norm in society.

But how about the fact that the situation you get to hear of is about how a woman was not sexually attracted to the husband. This started the problem and led to shallow results.  

The situation

Most women won’t admit the fact that they were sexually abused after their marriage.

Some would say that they were sexually abused and won’t be inquired of any further. The real thing to understand is, if it doesn’t involve consent, it will get you down to emotional abuse.

Later on, the situation will make you feel like you’re not sexually attracted to your husband. Lastly, it might result in dangerous outcomes and you will have no idea how to name the situation.

Is there a way out?

Of course.

It might only be because of the time. It might as well be because of the lack of originality. To avoid the bad decisions and forceful acts take it slow. It might seem like a task of nurturing a child, but it will take time.

Your partner can be your greatest or the worst friend.

It all depends on how you take it out with them regarding your tensing aspects. In order to flourish a good connection to stop the abuse either at the start or with time, you need to clear out the whole concept on your head as well.

Don’t jump into conclusions

It might be a very easy thing to portray that you are not sexually attracted to the husband. It might even be a lot easier to make it seem like this all is happening because of your previous bad experiences. This is not so. There could be different ways to deal with your fear. In order to figure out if it’s just fear or an actual feeling, seek help.

Open up to a therapist on this issue, or a marriage advisor. There could be issues arising only because of reluctance and negation.

Sometimes it is nothing but your harsh words about your partner’s physique or as such, that makes them hesitant.

Try to nip the evil in the bud.

Health issues

To name it as abuse, it is necessary to get to the bottom of the issue.

If your partner is being ignorant of your health issues and forces you to have sex, this could be dangerous. This might as well be called abuse. Cardiac diseases and hormonal imbalances can be the reasons for such an inconvenience.

Before saying that you are being sexually abused, try to make a few things clear to your partner related to health requirements. This is one of the most genuine issues and can be resolved with just a set of good talk and a run to find a way out.

Verdict

It should be clear to you, specifically, men that sexual abuse is not a joke and that misuse of power is obnoxious.

It is your responsibility to make it easy for your partner to open up. Be very gentle towards their past bad experiences and don’t make them feel left out. It might be the most difficult thing to address a sexual abuse be it with your own partner or an old story.

A good relationship flourishes when there is content,  and respect for each other’s place and opinions.