Don’t you sometimes wonder if we’ve seen it all and done it all when it comes to sex?
Sure, many of the techniques have been tried and tested but it’s always interesting to find more inspiration don’t you think? Perhaps you might enjoy starting to cover new sexual ground with your spouse; it will undoubtedly add a spring to your step and bring an extra touch of spice in the bedroom.
Over time, couples need to reinvent their sexual practices to keep things steamy in bed. However, this can come across as a bigger challenge for men who usually find themselves asking questions like –
“How can I have crazy sex with my wife?
“What are some sex tips to drive a woman crazy?”
“How to drive a woman wild in bed?”
“How to drive your girlfriend crazy in bed?”
Well worry not, we have some new sex tips to help you along.
For those of you who already do spice things up, it can be hard to find new sex tips that can inspire, that don’t make you feel inappropriate and that are fun easy to do!
Let’s face it… You shouldn’t need a degree to get down and dirty with your spouse. Knowing how to drive your wife crazy in bed can be an enthralling experience for you.
So here are some new sex tips for men to use with their spouses that they both might enjoy!
1. The classic touch is everything
Well, when we say classic, we don’t mean immediately heading ‘down there’ and having a fumble around. That might work for men, but it may not work out too well for your wife. There is no shortcut on how to drive a woman crazy in bed.
Women need to get in the mood for intimate sex and the best way to do so, as often recommended is, massaging all of her body.
Learn how to perform a lengthy erotic massage before you head ‘downstairs,’ and you might just discover the ‘on’ switch, along with additional new sex tips that go hand in hand with an erotic massage.
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Do it with the heart rather than out of obligation, and you’ll make her wild for you. Remember, a woman will know the difference!
2. Lay it on her
It’s probably safe to say that it’s perhaps a little more of a challenge to really turn on a woman that it might be a man. For example, catching a glimpse of your spouse naked might be all a man needs.
However, it’s not necessarily the same for women. Here are some new sex tips on how to nudge your partner’s sexual compass in the right direction.
A common mistake that men make is believing that the sight of your ‘manhood’ is going to drive her crazy. That may not always be the case.
Women are different from men in how they approach sex, even if some like to pretend otherwise. Many women often need more sensuality and sensitivity, they want time to build up the momentum, and the atmosphere usually needs to be right.
To drive her crazy in bed, you need to understand what she wants and how she wants it.
But there is a way, and that’s through some carefully curated messages of intent. The sexual intent of course! This is not necessarily one of our new sex tips, but its approach is going to be new to many.
To make a woman hungry for sex, it has to feel good for her. Otherwise, she’s just going through the motions.
But some women like a direct man, especially when they are letting them know what’s in store for them when they return home from work, or when you return home.
Leave her a note, somewhere where she’ll find it but the kids won’t, leave her a voice message and let her know what you will be doing to her when you return home.
Even call her but don’t engage in conversation just let her know. Keep it short and simple, so that she’s left waiting (or even begging) for more.
Then sit back because your work is done.
You probably won’t have to spend very long getting her in the mood when you return home. Not at all. But make sure that you back up your talk and practice your intentions, that will set the tone for the future.
3. The value scale
Contrary to popular belief, a woman’s sensitivity does not heighten during sex, it reduces. Which is why women want you to be a little more heavy-handed in the bedroom.
That doesn’t mean going in with the force of your strength, but asking her if she wants a firmer touch will help you to figure out the scale of effort or heavy-handedness she needs to feel satisfied.
It’s a tip that your wife might appreciate very much.
This sex tip will also help you open up the communication about sex and intimacy between you and promote discussion about how you like things, which can commonly be a challenge for many couples.
It’s a triple threat!
You get to relax a little bit more knowing that you don’t have to concentrate on delicate touch, your wife gets to enjoy your touch and you both get to open the floor to communicate more about what you like and dislike in the sack.
4. Take help from erotica
Cuddle in together, pick a book of erotica and read out the elaborate sexy details to each other, living those wild fantasies vicariously.
Alternatively, share smoldering, sensuous passages from your favorite romance novel, and act out the fantasy, full throttle.
This will help you get back in touch with your sensuality, rediscover your kinks and bring novelty into your sack session.
Remember sex is healthy and enhancing the sexual activity with your partner is a sure-fire way to cement your bonding further. Try these new sex tips and bask in the glory of a thriving married sex life!