After a while, your marriage may become boring and mundane. That passion you and your partner had in the beginning can slowly melt away as the relationship becomes more like a commitment. You act more like business partners and less like a loving couple. If you think your marriage is not what it used to be, take this ‘is my marriage still hot’ quiz to be sure about it.
1. Do you pay attention to each other’s personal issues?
A. Ofcourse yes
B. Yes, mostly
C. Whenever we have enough time for them
D. We’re not aware of each other’s personal issues
2. Do you encourage each other over goals and achievements?
A. Yes, who else would
B. Most of the time
C. We try to
D. I don’t think we need that encouragement. We’re adults after all
3. Do you engage in deep conversations?
A. Yes, and we simply love that
B. Sometimes we do
C. That’s rare
D. Conversations? Yes, Deep? Can’t say
4. Do you talk about how your day at work was?
A. Yes, every day
B. We often talk about it
C. Sometimes
D. Never
5. How often do you have sex?
A. At least once in three days
B. About once a week
C. Not more than once or twice a month
D. Ah yes, I remember sex, but we don't do that anymore
6. Do you have friends' night out?
A. Yes, often
B. Yes, it happens sometimes
C. Rarely
D. Never
7. Are you and your partner physically active?
A. We both are
B. Just me
C. Just my partner, but not me
D. No, we're not
8. Would you describe your sex as the same as in the beginning?
A. The sex is still good
B. Well, maybe not like the beginning, but it's satisfying
C. No
D. Even if we had sex, it wouldn’t be that good
9. Do you have a joint bank account?
A. Yes, don't all couples have one?
B. No, but we share everything
C. Yes, but it's hardly used as we have our separate ones
D. No, we don't mix bills
10. When did you last time go partying together?
A. Just the other day
B. Last week
C. I can't remember, but we did once
D. When we met, probably
11. When was the last time your partner cooked for you?
A. They do that very often
B. Last month
C. When they were trying to impress me at the beginning of the relationship
D. Never, unfortunately
12. When did your partner last surprise you?
A. Last week
B. A couple of months ago
C. For my birthday two years ago
D. Well, um, never
13. Do you think your partner might cheat on you?
A. Not likely
B. Probably not
C. He might. He might already have
D. He already cheated
14. Do you express your love to each other?
A. Yes, often
B. Occasionally
C. Rarely
D. Not anymore
15. Do you complement each other?
A. Yes, for many things
B. Sometimes
C. On occasions
D. I don’t remember the last time it happened
