Questions Excerpt1. Does your partner every offer something to other people?
A. Yes, but only to expect more in exchange
B. Yes, but I don't think it's out of generosity
C. Sometimes they do, sometimes they don't
D. Yes, out of pure generosity
2. Does your partner pressure you to do things their way?
A. Yes, always, and they get angry if I don't do as required
B. Sometimes
C. Rarely
D. Never
3. Does your partner use to break rules?
A. Yes, and they take pride in it
B. Yes, sometimes
C. Not really
D. Never
4. How does your partner treat you when you don’t give them what they want?
A. They get angry and use ridicule and personal attacks
B. They give me the cold shoulder and withhold affection
C. They are upset but get over it
D. They accept it
5. What is your partner’s opinion about their achievements?
A. They exaggerate about it
B. They like to boast, but they are right
C. They talk about achievements without boasting
D. They are very modest about it
6. Does your partner accept contrary viewpoints?
A. No, and they get mad when contradicted
B. No, and they ignore them
C. Yes, whether they like it or not
D. Yes, they embrace them without any problem
7. Does your partner consider their needs the most important?
A. All the time, they would even ignore our children's needs
B. I am afraid so
C. Sometimes
D. Never
8. Does your partner envy other people?
A. Yes, a lot
B. Yes, sometimes
C. Occasionally
D. Never
9. Does your partner reveal private information that most people would prefer to withhold?
A. Yes, and it's actually embarrassing
B. They follow this temptation sometimes
C. Rarely
D. Never
10. How does your partner react to criticism?
A. They get very angry and start defending themselves
B. They simply ignore it
C. They are not happy about it but listen to critics
D. They listen to critics and try to improve themselves
