When you have a troubled marriage, it is often hard for someone to admit it. Someone may be in denial because they believe that they are too much in control of the situation, or again, they see the same trend of fighting, making up happening over and over again and they think that since it is something, they go through all the time they shouldn’t really worry about it. The problem is if it happens all the time, you open the door for problems such as infidelity, and lack of trust in the end.
1. How many times a Year do you fight with your partner?
A. You'd say 100 times a year
B. You'd say more than 100 times
C. A couple of times, not more
D. You hardly ever fight during the year, so it will be hard for you to say
2. Do you hate your life right now?
A. Yes, you do
B. Sometimes you do
C. You do, but it has nothing to do with your partner
D. No, you don’t because your partner makes you forget about all your worries
3. Do you think your partner cares about you?
A. Yes
B. Sometimes
C. Most of the time
D. Yes
4. What do you mostly fight about?
A. Money
B. Infidelities
C. The chores around the house
D. Nothing
5. Do you often feel like leaving the relationship and never coming back?
A. Yes, all the time
B. Yes, and you actually feel like leaving now
C. No, not yet
D. No, you would never do that
6. Is it easy for you to reconcile?
A. No, because of your egos
B. No, because you are both stubborn
C. Yes, because after a while it is ridiculous not to speak to someone you live with
D. Yes, because you love each other
7. Do you feel like something is missing presently in your life?
A. Yes
B. You feel this way all the time
C. Sometimes
D. No, everything is fine actually
8. Are you finding it hard to have a moment of peace in your home?
A. Yes, all the time
B. Sometimes
C. Most of the time
D. No, you feel very comfortable in your home
9. Do you often feel threatened by your partner for whatever reason?
A. Yes
B. All the time
C. Yes, and it is mostly because they are unpredictable
D. No, otherwise you would have left them a long time ago
10. Do you have any regrets being in this relationship in the first place?
A. Yes, a lot
B. Yes, you do sometimes
C. No, not at all
D. You do have regrets but not to the point of leaving that person
