1. Do you think you listen to one another?
2. How committed are you both to working on the relationship?
3. How do you and your partner communicate about difficult topics?
4. How do you feel when you spend time with your partner?
5. Do you and your partner share similar life goals?
6. How often do you and your partner resolve conflicts in a healthy way?
7. Do you still enjoy having sex with one another?
8. Do you still go out together?
9. Do you still plan your holidays together?
10. How many times a day do you call your partner?
11. When you think of your future, is your spouse in it?
12. Did your children ever ask you to divorce?
13. Do you feel like your marriage is a positive environment for child rearing?
14. Are you two ever willing to compromise?
15. What do you feel when your spouse touches you?
16. What do your family and friends think about your marriage?
17. Do you feel you have a fulfilling marriage?
18. Have any of you cheated?
19. How often do you two fight?
20. You have just been promoted at work. Who do you tell to first?
