1. When it comes to relationships, who would you say is in charge?
2. Have you ever screamed at your partner and insulted or threatened them in a bullying manner?
3. Who is usually at fault for the problems in your relationship?
4. When you and your partner are having an argument, who usually wins?
5. How would your past partners describe your treatment of them in a relationship?
6. Your partner wants to spend more time with family and friends. How do you react?
7. The term “gaslighting” means to manipulate someone into questioning facts or reality. Have you done this?
8. Your partner has put on some extra weight recently. What do you do?
9. How would you describe your temperament?
10. Do you keep tabs on what your partner is doing at all times?
11. Does your partner feel anxious around you?
12. Does your partner avoid voicing their feelings to you?
13. Do you criticize your partner publicly?
14. Do you trust your partner and treat them with respect?
15. Have you ever accused your partner of having an affair, because you were jealous?