How Secure Is Your Self-Worth In Love Quiz

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10 Questions | Total Attempts: 19 | Updated: Aug 05, 2025

1. When your partner is upset but doesn’t tell you why, what’s your first thought?


I must have done something wrong
They probably had a bad day
I’ll give them space and check in later
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3. How do you feel when your partner compliments someone else?


Insecure and jealous
A bit unsure but I manage it
Totally fine; they’re just being kind

4. When you’re single, how do you view yourself?


I feel unworthy or lonely
I feel okay, but I prefer being in a relationship
I feel whole and confident on my own

5. Do you find it hard to express your needs in a relationship?


Yes, I worry they’ll reject me or think I’m needy
Sometimes, but I try to communicate
No, I express myself clearly and respectfully

6. How do you react to disagreements with your partner?


I panic and feel like the relationship is doomed
I feel stressed but try to work it through
I see it as a normal part of a relationship

7. Do you feel more attractive only when your partner praises you?


Yes, their opinion matters the most
A little, but I try not to rely on it
No, I know I’m attractive regardless

8. When your partner is busy and doesn't respond quickly, how do you feel?


Anxious; they must be losing interest
A bit uneasy, but I understand
Secure; I know they’ll respond when they can

9. How do you define your identity in a relationship?


Through the role I play in the relationship
A mix of who I am and how I relate to them
As a complete individual, with or without them

10. Do you ever compare your relationship to others'?


All the time; it makes me feel like I’m lacking
Sometimes, but I try not to
Rarely; I focus on what’s real in my own relationship

11. If your relationship ended, how would you feel about yourself?


Devastated and lost; I wouldn’t know who I am
Sad, but I’d try to rebuild
Hurt, but I’d still know my worth
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