How Much Self-Awareness Do You Bring To Love Quiz

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10 Questions | Updated: Aug 06, 2025

1. When your partner gives you feedback about something that bothered them, you:


Feel immediately defensive and argue your case
Feel upset but try to reflect on their point
Welcome the feedback and explore what it reveals about you
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3. If a relationship starts feeling emotionally overwhelming, your instinct is to:


Pull away or shut down without explanation
Struggle to express what’s going on but want to connect
Take a step back, reflect, and communicate your needs

4. How often do you reflect on your role in past conflicts?


Rarely; I usually feel the other person was mostly to blame
Sometimes; I realize I could have done things differently
Often; I actively look for my own patterns and responsibility

5. When you're feeling jealous, how do you respond?


Act out or make accusations without thinking
Sit with the feeling but may unintentionally project it
Identify the emotion, explore its roots, and communicate calmly

6. In relationships, you define your needs and boundaries:


Only when something goes really wrong
Sometimes, but it feels uncomfortable
Proactively and clearly—it’s part of healthy love

7. When someone you're dating has a different opinion, you:


Feel challenged and try to convince them you’re right
Try to understand their point, though it may frustrate you
Get curious about their view and share your own calmly

8. How often do you think about why you’re drawn to certain people?


Almost never; I just go with what feels right
Occasionally; I notice patterns but don’t dwell on them
Regularly; I reflect on emotional attraction and past dynamics

9. If you feel triggered by your partner's behavior, what do you do?


React emotionally in the moment
Try to manage it but might not fully understand it
Pause to notice the trigger and explore its origin

10. How do you handle emotional vulnerability in a relationship?


Avoid it; it feels uncomfortable or risky
Share it sometimes, but it’s hard to stay open
Embrace it; it’s essential for intimacy

11. Your idea of relationship growth includes:


Hoping the other person changes for the better
Working together but often focusing on fixing problems
Mutual self-reflection, growth, and conscious communication
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