1. Do you feel like you've tried everything to resolve disagreements or relationship issues, but it's not successful?
2. Do you believe that your boyfriend should be telling you what to do?
3. Do you feel that your boyfriend doesn't respect you?
4. Do you ever feel that your boyfriend is reluctant to listen to you, so you censor yourself when speaking?
5. Has your boyfriend tried to make you feel bad about the way you have been treated because of your illness or disability?
6. Do your boyfriend’s actions make you feel bad about yourself?
7. Have you ever been afraid to say no to sex with your boyfriend?
8. Is your boyfriend’s reaction disproportionate to the seriousness of the situation?
9. Does your boyfriend threaten you when he doesn’t get his way?
10. When you talk to your partner about an issue between the two of you, do you often feel like you don't know what to say, or that you have nothing to say?
