1. How do you handle conflicts in your relationships?
2. How often do you express gratitude or appreciation to your partner?
3. How do you feel about compromising in your relationship?
4. How do you handle your partner making mistakes or errors?
5. How often do you check in with your partner about their feelings or needs?
6. How do you feel about your partner making major financial decisions?
7. How do you feel about sharing responsibilities in your relationship?
8. Have you ever felt like your partner was trying to control you?
9. How do you feel about your partner having different opinions or ideas than you?
10. Do you feel like you have to be in control of every aspect of your relationship?
11. Who usually makes decisions about where to go, what to eat, what to watch on TV, etc.?
12. What do you feel is your role in your relationships?
13. Has your dominance ever ended any of your relationships because of how you treated your partner?
14. Have you ever said things you didn’t mean or called your partner names that were hurtful because of feeling like you didn’t have control over something?
15. Is it always evident in your relationships who is in charge, or is it hard to tell?
16. Have you ever gotten physical with your partner over something they did wrong?
17. If your partner doesn’t do what you want them to do, how do you usually react?
18. Do you mind sitting back and letting your partner take control of things so you can focus on whatever else is going on in your life?
19. Who usually does the household chores or designates the chores?
20. Who usually makes all the big decisions or plans out important events?
