With the passage of time, it may seem like you are losing the control of your relationship, while your partner is in charge of everything. But, don’t you stress over it.
Read on as this article will take you towards dominance.Below are some rules and tips that will lead you to being the one with all the power.
You may not know this, but your independence is the key trick to prove to your partner that they do not control you. Don’t depend on your partner to take you for groceries or to complete other daily needs. Instead, go out by yourself and get things done. This way your partner will know that you are able enough to do the chores without them.
Also, go out with your friend circle whenever it is feasible for you. You do not require your partner’s permission for that.
Seek what you deserve
This is one really important tip. Never, I repeat never settle for anything less than what you deserve. If you think something is not going the way you want, walk away. It is the right thing to do and will show your partner that you need to be treated only the right way.
Do not stay quiet
Didn’t like something your partner did? Tell them. Confronting your companion is the way to go. Also, if there is a doubt about something, clear it up and be honest with them.
Restrain from bottling up your emotions and feelings inside. Moreover, if you want something, ask them straightaway and do not hesitate.
Maintain your boundaries
Keeping boundaries is a crucial act in a relationship. Do not always give in to your partner’s demand because this will make you seem needy to your partner. For this, first you need to know your own limits. Then, never let your partner cross any of it. They should know that they will not get off easily with you.
In order to be the one with control, you need to be upright and confident. Speak up for yourself. Do not let your partner have a control over you. If you feel something is wrong, disclose it to them. Show your partner that you are as equally powerful as them.
Never stay under their foot, but climb up their heads. Do not hesitate while speaking up about your needs. Also, do not hold back in any argument. Express your opinions freely.
Do not always stay available
Go out, enjoy your life. Do not hang up on your friends only because your partner wants you with them.
Show them that your life does not only revolve around this relationship, but you have a life outside of it too. You do not always need them in order to have fun. Some time alone is also vital.
Never let your emotions carry you away. Speak up for what is best for you. It is important to not always take the emotional path, but stay firm and talk the matter out like a mature adult. This way your partner will realize that you cannot be controlled emotionally.
Stand with your words
As the saying goes, “Actions speak louder than words.”
Never back track from your words.
Do what you said. If you promised something, fulfill it. Your partner must be aware that you are honest to what you say. You will appear as the weak one if you do not stay firm to your words.
Finally, you need to be completely fair with your partner. If anything goes wrong at your end, tell them and apologize.
Do not hold it back as they may then find you hard to trust. Also, this may prevent your partner from having any advantages over you. So, always have the upper hand in your relationship.