When we look around today, we see women matching footsteps with men. The entire equal right and equal pay are getting everyone’s attention. While this is good news and one must appreciate that people are actually talking about this, there are certain things that are beyond this.
If we leave behind all the political and socio-economical fight between men and women outside the bedroom, we would observe that most women prefer their men dominant. They want them to take control of things, especially on the bed.
Listed below are some tips that will help men take total control of the situation and help them position themselves as the leader of the household and in society.
1. Be a leader, not a boss
There is a difference between being a leader and being a boss. We all know about it. In professional life, you are working under someone and are just an employee, but in the home, you’re the leader. You have the responsibility of the entire household.
If you wish to be known as a dominant man then you must be a leader.
You have to take important decisions that will affect the entire family. These decisions may be tough, but you must look for the long-term benefit and make the right choice.
2. Provide your family with the best you can give
Your wife may be working and earning but it’s your responsibility to provide your family with all the best things you can give.
You have to take care of their comfort. You must give them things that are necessary for them to have a comfortable life.
You will be involved in big and important decisions. Your family looks up to you for it. If you fail to address these things then things might turn against you.
3. Be strong or pretend if you’re not
Your family looks up at you for every small thing. They know that you’re strong and can fight back any situation. This strength is used to protect them from any danger ahead. If you wish to be an alpha male then you must demonstrate your strength from time and time.
It’s not always about physical strength, but mental strength as well. You must be prepared for anything and everything. You must stand at the front and safeguard your family. By doing such things you can prove your dominance in the family and earn respect.
4. Take firm and right decisions
Whilst trying to keep your family together, it’s important for you to understand that you can’t say yes to everything.
You must take firm and right decision for your family, even if it means saying ‘no’ at times.
Always back your decision with the right information. Though you’re not always answerable to anyone, make sure that are prepared with the right opinion, if asked. This firmness and precision in decision making will set you like dominant men in the house.
5. Have a charismatic personality
An alpha male in society has a charismatic personality. They’re someone who gets everyone’s attention easily. They present themselves well and are always updated about things around them. Anyone can identify them from a distance and their personality and behavior market them well in their surroundings.
If you desire to be one among the alpha man in the society, make sure you have developed some of the traits of a charismatic personality. Treat people around you with respect and have high values.
6. Be competitive in a good spirit
Competitive behavior can be a positive or a negative trait, depending on how one takes it. It is always suggested that dominant men must have a good competitive spirit as this will keep him going.
It must not be always about winning but winning the right way. People do have high hopes from you but that should not make you take wrong measures in order to win a competition. For once you may get attention but in the long run, it may simply impact your overall personality and stature.
7. Be confident of who you’re and what you do
A confident man can win any battle. Confident personality can shake anyone and will help establish a person as one the most respected person in the surroundings. It’s not easy to emerge as a confident person but practice makes a man perfect.
It’s a process that you must go through in order to be a dominant man in society. Read books, attain knowledge, have the best information about your field and things around you. When you’re sure of things, it shows in your words and presentation.
Dominant men are needed both in the house and outside the house. These pointers will help you emerge as one in both places. Follow these suggestions and see the change yourself.
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