Toxic Personality Test Quiz

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20 Questions | Total Attempts: 6199 | Updated: Jun 29, 2025
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Toxic Personality Test Quiz

Toxic behavior isn't always loud or obvious. Sometimes, it shows up subtly, like constant criticism, jealousy, or the urge to control a situation. While some people carry deeper patterns that hurt others, others may only show occasional signs under stress.

This toxic personality test quiz is designed to help you reflect on your behavior and see where you really stand. Whether you're struggling with toxic habits, noticing some unhealthy tendencies, or showing up with emotional balance, your results can offer clarity and a starting point for growth.

Questions Excerpt

1. Do you think you dramatize a lot?

A. I feel I do

B. Only sometimes

C. Never

2. Do you hear negative things about yourself?

A. Yes, I do

B. Only from certain people

C. No

3. How do you react when others confront you?

A. I try to understand the situation

B. I react with vigor

C. I get angry

4. Do you check up on others and their whereabouts?

A. Whenever necessary

B. Yes, of course

C. Is it necessary?

5. Do you feel a sense of authority during an argument with others?

A. Yes

B. Sometimes

C. No

6. Do you notice the negative side of the story first?

A. Yes

B. Sometimes

C. No

7. Do you treat others respectfully?

A. Certain people

B. Yes

C. I don’t think that’s necessary

8. Do you blame others for your problems?

A. All the time

B. Only when necessary

C. Not really

9. How often do you lie on a scale of 1 to 10, 1 being the lowest and 10 being the highest?

A. 1-3

B. 3-6

C. 6-10

10. Do you feel you are mean?

A. What is meanness?

B. I have to be so that others respect me

C. Only when I think it’s necessary

11. Do you prefer to speak mostly while communicating with others?

A. I speak first

B. Only sometimes

C. No, I tend to listen first and then speak

12. Do you hold grudges and bring up past mistakes in arguments?

A. Yes

B. Sometimes

C. No

13. Do you feel like people are avoiding you because you are deemed to be very toxic?

A. Yes

B. No

C. It's possible

14. Do you feel like you push things a bit too far with most people?

A. Yes

B. No

C. Sometimes

15. Are you comfortable seeing other people being happy?

A. No, you have to make sure they are as miserable as you are

B. No, if you are in a bad mood

C. Yes, of course, because it’s inspirational

16. Do you gossip a lot about other people?

A. Yes, a lot

B. Sometimes it happens

C. Not really

17. Do you think that you are complaining all the time?

A. Yes

B. Sometimes

C. Not at all

18. Do you criticize others, even jokingly, in a way that makes them feel small?

A. Always

B. Sometimes

C. Never

19. Are you normally someone who is easy to work with?

A. Yes

B. No

C. You wish you were but no

20. Do you get along with all your friends?

A. Yes

B. Sometimes

C. No


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