Should You Stay Or Leave The Relationship Quiz

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20 Questions | Total Attempts: 14804 | Updated: Dec 23, 2025

1. How do you feel about your partner's habits or quirks?


They frustrate or annoy me constantly
Some things bother me, but I can deal with them
I accept their quirks without issue
I love their unique habits; they make our relationship special
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3. When you think about the future, what role does your partner play in your vision?


I don’t see them in it
I’m unsure; it feels unclear
I see them in most parts of my future
They are an important part of my long-term plans

4. Do you still enjoy spending quality time together?


Not really; it often feels draining
Sometimes, depending on our mood
Usually, we have good moments
Absolutely; I look forward to it

5. How balanced does the effort in your relationship feel?


I give way more than I receive
It feels somewhat unbalanced
It’s mostly equal
We both put in consistent and mutual effort

6. When conflicts happen, how does your partner respond to your emotions?


They dismiss or invalidate my feelings
They try, but don’t always understand
They usually respond calmly and respectfully
They actively listen and support me

7. Do you feel emotionally safe expressing your true feelings to your partner?


Rarely or never
Sometimes, but I hold back often
Most of the time, yes
Always; I can be myself completely

8. How do you feel when you imagine your life without your partner?


Relieved or free
Uncertain or a little sad
I cannot imagine my life without them
Very sad; they’re an important part of your life

9. Are your future goals and values aligned?


Not at all; we want very different things
We have noticeable differences, but we’re trying to work on them
Mostly, with minor differences
Completely; we're on the same page about our future

10. How do you handle conflicts together?


We argue without resolving things
We struggle but are willing to seek help to improve
We manage to resolve most issues over time
We communicate openly and resolve conflicts effectively

11. Do you feel emotionally supported by your partner?


Rarely or never
Sometimes, but I often wish it were more consistent
Most of the time, yes
Yes, I feel very supported

12. Have you seriously considered leaving the relationship?


Yes, I’ve thought about it often
Sometimes, during difficult moments
Rarely
No, not at all

13. Would you be able to compromise with your partner in order to work things out?


No, not anymore
Yes, I could try
Maybe, but it would be difficult
No, it is out of the question

14. Is feeling unaccomplished together a major reason you want to leave?


Yes
No
Yes, and a whole lot of other things
Sometimes you do want to leave them because of that

15. Do you think that your partner still gives you the same attention they used to?


Yes, always
No, not anymore
I sometimes feel this way
That’s not really their style, even from the start

16. Do you feel used by your partner?


Yes, all the time
I used to but not anymore
Yes, and it bothers me a lot
Yes, I do sometimes

17. Are you tired of the relationship?


I’ve felt this way for a long time
Yes
Not really
No

18. Do feelings of hurt or broken trust play a role in wanting to leave?


Yes, very much
Somewhat
A little, but not the main reason
Not at all

19. Has your partner ever suggested taking a break or separating?


Yes, more than once
Yes, but we talked it through
Not directly, but it has been implied
No

20. Is your desire to leave influenced by someone outside the relationship?


Yes
Somewhat
Not really
Not at all

21. How openly do you and your partner discuss concerns about the relationship ending?


We talk about it often during conflicts
We've brought it up a few times
Rarely
Never
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