Should I Forgive Her For Cheating Quiz

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20 Questions | Total Attempts: 1189 | Updated: Sep 12, 2024

1. How would you describe your relationship before the cheating occurred?


We had our issues and frequent disagreements
It was generally stable with typical ups and downs
Things seemed great, which makes this even harder to understand
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2. What impact has this incident had on your self-esteem?


My self-esteem has not been significantly affected
It has taken a hit, but I'm managing
It has severely damaged my self-confidence

3. How do you view the future of your relationship?


I am optimistic we can overcome this
I'm unsure but willing to see where things go
I am pessimistic about our chances

4. Has your partner taken steps to make amends beyond just apologizing?


Yes, they've made significant changes in behavior
They've made some efforts, but it doesn’t seem enough
No, they haven’t done much beyond apologizing

5. Do you feel that the relationship is worth the effort to rebuild?


Yes, the relationship is fundamentally strong
I'm uncertain if the effort will be worth the outcome
No, I feel it might be too broken to fix

6. How has the communication between you and your partner changed since discovering the infidelity?


We communicate more openly now
It's more strained than before
We hardly talk about meaningful things anymore

7. Can you envision a life alone, without your partner?


Yes, I believe I can be content on my own
The thought is daunting but not impossible
No, the idea of being alone is very unsettling

8. Do you and your partner have a family together?


No, it's just the two of us
We were planning on building a family
Yes, we have children which complicate decisions

9. Do you believe in monogamy?


Yes, I strongly believe in being with one person at a time
My beliefs are shaken; I'm reconsidering what I thought
I'm questioning whether monogamy is realistic for me

10. What was your reaction upon discovering the infidelity?


I needed space and cut off contact temporarily
We confronted the issue through a significant argument
We discussed the underlying problems in our relationship

11. How deeply do you feel connected to your partner emotionally?


I feel profoundly connected and committed
My feelings have diminished, and I'm uncertain about our bond
I’m re-evaluating my emotional investment following recent events

12. How long do you think it will take before you forgive your partner?


I have already forgiven her
Possibly a few months to a year
I honestly do not know

13. Do you think that people cheat because they have found someone better?


I hope not
Possibly
No, it’s more about the circumstances than finding someone better

14. How are you coping with your feelings after discovering the infidelity?


I am primarily hurt but not feeling guilty
I feel a mix of hurt and personal guilt
I'm focusing on my own feelings, not feeling guilty

15. Why do you think forgiveness might be important if you choose to pursue it?


For my own emotional peace and to potentially salvage our relationship
To maintain a semblance of normalcy for external reasons, like family
I believe forgiveness is essential for moving past any major conflict

16. What would need to happen for you to consider forgiveness?


A sincere apology and visible efforts to mend the relationship
A clear understanding and mutual agreement on how to move forward
I don't know if any conditions could lead to forgiveness

17. To the best of your understanding, what factors contributed to the infidelity?


I’m not sure why it happened
External pressures or dissatisfaction might have played a role
It seems like a search for something different or new

18. Has your belief in fidelity changed after this incident?


My belief in fidelity remains strong
I'm more skeptical about faithfulness now
I find it hard to believe in fidelity anymore

19. Before this incident, had either of you ever breached trust significantly?


No, this is the first breach of trust
Yes, there have been past issues on both sides
No, but now I am questioning everything

20. How has infidelity impacted your view of the relationship?


I'm struggling but hopeful about recovery
I'm keeping busy to avoid thinking about it
I feel overwhelmed and unsure if I can move past it
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