1. How often do you talk for the pleasure of conversation and feel you are truly connected?
2. Do you ever fantasize of being with someone else?
3. What do you feel about your differences?
4. How do you talk about challenging topics?
5. Are you judgmental of each other?
6. Do you feel emotionally safe in your marriage?
7. How often do you experience physical intimacy with your spouse?
8. Do you respect each other?
9. Do you agree on the number of children you want to have?
10. How does an evening spent together look like?
11. Do you have a healthy sex life with your partner?
12. Can you solve problems without arguing?
13. Are you and your partner faithful?
14. Does your spouse meet your expectations in the marriage?
15. Does your partner support you?