How would you describe your friends?

They are great, super supportive

I mean they’re awesome, I’m always so surprised they wanna be my friend

If I’m being honest, they can be a bit mean

We are trendy, we try to be “in”

Do you find you give in to peer pressure easily?

I mean I do generally do whatever my friends tell me to

I guess I am basically a conformist

Not more than your average person

Not really, I worry that if I did I wouldn’t be able to do what everyone else was doing

What do you doubt the most about yourself?

I worry that I am abnormal or unattractive or just not what I should be

Nothing in particular, I just am never sure

What do you value most?

All that I have somehow luckily been given, even if I have never deserved it

What is your worst nightmare?

Everyone realizing I just don’t fit in

That certain person thinking I have failed

Suddenly being in a situation where I have to save the world

Endless time to get trapped in my thoughts

Do you find yourself questioning everything you do?

Not everything, just things I do publicly

Yeah, I just don’t know what I am good at

Not quite everything, I just have some things I really doubt

Just the things that I’ve been told I’m bad at

Do you hear a voice in your head putting you down?

In a way, it changes though based off of whose popular at the moment

I mean I guess, but it’s not so specific

When you are starting a project, do you expect to succeed?

Depends if it’s something I’ve been told I’m good at

Not at all, I suck at everything

I have my doubts, but I push through them

I just worry that I’ll disappoint everyone

What makes you feel good about yourself?

People telling me I am cool or that I impressed them

Feeling like I proved that person wrong

Succeeding at something I thought I would fail at

Accomplishing my goals and overcoming obstacles

What thought fills you with sadness?

Everyone finding out that I am actually a complete loser

Failing people when they trust me

Never being able to show that person why I am worthy

Why Am I So Insecure?

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10 Questions | Total Attempts: 239 | Updated: Feb 24, 2022

Sometimes, our doubts can overwhelm us. It’s part of life to doubt, but where do these come from? For some of us, this insecurity can be overwhelming and affect all the decisions we make. When insecurity and doubt get in how we feel about ourselves, we have to find a way to deal with it but do that. We have to know where that insecurity is coming from. It’s not always a bad thing and definitely not an abnormal thing to question ourselves, but hopefully, we can strive to feel secure in ourselves.