Love is a great mystery. We have all experienced it at some point in life, and yet, each of us describes it differently. At times, we may put the rose glasses on and get so caught up. We may miss the bigger picture. If this sounds familiar, you can ask yourself the question, are your beliefs about love realistic?Sometimes, fantasies we hold about relationships and the person beside us can be so idealized, they can keep us from having the actual thing. By taking the following ‘Are Your Beliefs About Love Realistic’ quiz, you can understand what your beliefs actually are. rn
1. In a loving, stable relationship…
A. You make way for sweetness and romance, and yet you may argue a lot
B. You both feel like flying and never have fights
C. You may have many tough moments and still feel good together
2. A long-term relationship requires…
A. Lots of passion
B. Lots of balance
C. Lots of work
3. How do you feel about yourself?
A. I can handle things on my own, yet I’m still looking for excitement and fun
B. I’m ready for whatever life may bring and trying to learn the best way from it
C. I’m always searching for something missing and sometimes feel like I’m not enough
4. Do you believe in soulmates?
A. No, we meet many people, and each of them can teach us something
B. I’m not sure, but I know that there must be someone right for me
C. Yes, I am waiting to meet the one, and I am not settling for anything less
5. Love is all about…
A. Living together and keeping the spark of romance alive
B. Meeting the challenges of life together and feeling safe
C. Passionate moments of romance that take your breath away
6. Do you believe in love at first sight?
C. More likely in the intuition to feel the other person
7. You partner…
A. Is perfect for me. They are my true love
B. Has their good and bad sides, but never forgets to make a sweet gesture
C. Has many flaws, and yet we get along and live in peac
8. In your partner, you see someone who will…
A. Make time for romance, and yet has their feet stable on the ground
B. Keep me safe and show me the wonders that the world holds
C. Be with me when things get messy and make everyday life more peaceful
9. How do you feel about spending time together?
A. We are inseparable and do lots of new, exciting things
B. We have a lot of activities in common, yet we have our personal space as well
C. We have our separate hobbies and activities, yet we can simply talk and feel just as close
10. How about your partner’s personality?
A. They are a separate human being ready to grow as a person and in the relationship
B. They are my perfect match. It’s almost as if they complete me
C. They have something special inside them, and still, we are different individuals