1. Does your partner get annoyed at you for small, insignificant things?
2. How often do you and your partner get into arguments?
3. Do you feel like you don’t have a voice in the relationship?
4. Does your partner make you feel guilty even though you did nothing wrong?
5. Does your partner let you tell your side of the story?
6. Have you ever felt like you wanted to get out of the relationship?
7. Has your partner ever apologized for their mistakes?
8. Is your partner only nice to you when they need something from you?
9. Does your partner shout at you?
10. Does your partner take out all their anger on you?
11. How does your partner react when you express a different opinion?
12. When discussing sensitive topics, how does your partner communicate with you?
13. Does your partner give you the silent treatment as a form of punishment?
14. How does your partner respond to your achievements or successes?
15. Does your partner use phrases like “you’re too sensitive” to dismiss your feelings?