Is My Husband Verbally Abusive Quiz

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10 Questions | Total Attempts: 828 | Updated: Jul 15, 2024

1. Does your husband begin fights with you?


He constantly starts fights and finds something wrong with everything I do
He doesn’t start fights with me, but we do argue
We do not really fight. I think we have good communication
He starts fights but not as often as I do
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2. What first name or nickname would you like us to use?

You may optionally provide this to personalise your insights.

3. Does your husband disrespect you?


Yes, he has no respect for me at all
I feel respected by my husband
I feel like he respects me for the most part
From time to time, I feel disrespected by my husband

4. Does your husband expect that you will do what he says?


He listens to me as much as I listen to him
He expects that I will listen to him without question
He wants me to listen to him, but sometimes I don’t and then he gets mad
He wants me to consider his ideas and instructions, but if I don’t that’s okay

5. Does your husband blame you for things that are not your fault?


No, he puts the blame where it belongs
He blames me for EVERYTHING
He blames me sometimes, but it usually gets cleared up
He usually will blame me and will sometimes listen when I tell him it's not my fault

6. Does your husband say things that make you feel bad about yourself?


He has said things in the past that have hurt me
He doesn’t put me down, just lifts me up
It is a constant stream of put-downs out of his mouth
He has put me down once or twice

7. Does your husband mock you in front of friends and family?


He does sometimes, even though I’ve asked him to stop
He does, but he stops when I ask him to
He consistently mocks me in front of my friends and even my family
No, he doesn’t mock me in front of people or in private

8. Do you feel trapped in your marriage?


I feel trapped most days
I am suffocating in my marriage
I am happy in my marriage and do not feel trapped
I have felt trapped, but not anymore

9. Does your husband refuse to apologize after yelling or belittling you?


When my husband loses his temper, he apologizes
He will never apologize for anything
He will apologize if he feels he was wrong
He has apologized before and will when he feels he has really hurt me

10. When you fight, does your husband storm off after he’s done making his point?


He usually needs space after an argument
No, we process together until it’s resolved
He will leave the room or area after a fight
He usually storms off, and I don’t know when he will come back

11. Do you feel safe around your husband?


I feel safe if he is in a good mood
I do not feel safe with my husband
I feel completely safe with my husband
I feel safe with my husband most days
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