Abuse does not necessarily mean just physical abuse. It can also be other things, like putting you down and making you feel worthless. Emotional and psychological abuse can leave you feeling anxious, worthless, and even depressed, and it is equally harmful as physical abuse. Forcing or tricking someone into sex or sexual activities is also abuse. This ''is he abusing me'' quiz will help you recognize such behaviors. Let's take a closer look.
1. Does he constantly accuse you of flirting with others when this isn’t true?
A. Yes
B. No
C. This has happened only once or twice
2. Does he make you feel afraid to disagree or say ‘no’ to him?
A. Yes
B. No
C. In some situations
3. Does he threaten to hurt you or kill himself if you say you want to end the relationship?
A. Yes
B. No
C. It has happened a few times
4. Does he often put you down, humiliate you, or make you feel worthless?
A. Yes
B. No
C. Not sure
5. Does he constantly check up on what you’re doing or where you are going?
A. Yes
B. No
C. Not that I know of
6. Does your boyfriend put his needs before yours?
A. Yes
B. No
C. Sometimes, maybe.
7. Does he pressure you to do sexual things that you don’t want to do?
A. Yes
B. No
C. He says these are needs that have to be met.
8. Does he scare or hurt you by being violent?
A. Yes
B. No
C. He has not hit me, but I feel threatened.
9. Does he act jealous and try to stop you from seeing your own friends or family?
A. Yes
B. No
C. Some of them.
10. Why are you taking this quiz right now?
A. Because of curiosity.
B. Because of a desire to just understand what's going on.
C. I guess I have an abusive relationship.
