1. Do you call or text this person randomly?
2. Do you feel the need to keep your friendship with this person a secret?
3. Do you ever compare this person to your partner?
4. Do you make excuses to spend time with this person?
5. How would you feel if your partner knew the extent of your interactions with this person?
6. Do you share personal details with this person that you don't share with your partner?
7. Do you look forward to talking to or meeting with your friend?
8. Do you mind your body language when you’re with your friend?
9. Are you protective of your conversations with this person?
10. Do you bring them gifts?
11. How often do you think about this person?
12. What do you feel when the other person is paying you a compliment?
13. How do you feel when you haven’t spoken to your friend for days?
14. How do you feel about your friendship with this person?
15. How is your relationship with your partner?
16. How do you act when the other person is around?
17. How do you prepare before meeting this person?
18. What do you complain about to your friend?
19. Does this person know about your marital status and spouse?
20. What do you talk about with him or her?
