Is my wife having an emotional affair? Is this thought tormenting you lately? Emotional cheating involves a level of personal connection with another person that develops over time and could be someone your wife may have a genuine friendship with, either through work, mutual friends, or common interests. However, when the communication begins to be more frequent, intimate, and something your wife starts to hide, these are signs that it is starting to cross a boundary. If you are suspicious of your wife’s “relationship” with someone else and are concerned she may be emotionally cheating on you, take this short quiz and see if you’re right!
1. Is there someone in your wife’s life that she talks to about your relationship (other than her best friends) or any issues that come up between the two of you?
A. Yes
B. Sometimes
C. I don't think so
2. Do you know a person your wife talks to regularly that may have feelings for her that are more than friendly, even if she denies feeling the same?
A. I think so
B. I am not sure
C. No, I don't think so
3. Do you feel like less of a priority to your wife?
A. Sometimes
B. Rarely
C. No
4. Do you feel like you have been getting into arguments for no reason or that come out of nowhere?
A. Yes
B. Sometimes
C. Rarely
5. Is there a person you have questioned your wife about that creates tension or that she becomes super defensive about?
A. Yes
B. Not one in particular, but in general, she’s more tense/defensive
C. No
6. Does she often hide her phone or seem sneaky when she is on it?
A. Yes
B. Sometimes
C. No
7. Do you feel like she spends a lot of time on her phone either texting or social media?
A. Yes
B. Sometimes
C. No
8. Do you know all of the people she communicates with regularly?
A. No, she talks to people I don’t really know at all
B. I am not sure
C. Yes, I believe so
9. Is there a person in particular that you feel your wife frequently talks about or seems to know a lot about?
A. Yes
B. Sometimes
C. Rarely
10. Do you feel like your wife is less engaged in conversation with you and seems more distracted or preoccupied with her phone?
A. Yes
B. Sometimes
C. Rarely
