1. Is it hard for you to know what your spouse thinks?
2. Do you find it hard to prove a point to your spouse because you never quite know what they mean when they say something?
3. Do you suspect your spouse to be fed up with you?
4. Do you think your spouse is a feminist and that’s why they are passive-aggressive?
5. Are you sometimes scared of what your spouse might do to you because they are passive-aggressive?
6. Do you sometimes see your spouse as a mysterious person?
7. Do you think your spouse is easy to live with, despite their being passive-aggressive?
8. Has your spouse ever been cruel but got away with it because they are so passive?
9. Are people afraid to befriend your spouse because they are so passive-aggressive?
10. Is your spouse also passive-aggressive with visitors?
11. If they have an argument with you, they use silent treatment where they give little or no response.
12. When they disagree with you, they openly voice their opinion about it:
13. Do they withhold compliments for you if they’re mad at you?
14. How often do they say ‘Whatever?’
15. Are they ever sarcastic?
