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Is My Boyfriend Selfish In Bed Quiz

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10 Questions | Total Attempts: 434 | Updated: Dec 29, 2023

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1. How often does your boyfriend openly and honestly communicate your desires and boundaries in the bedroom?

He values open communication and actively discusses desires and boundaries to create a positive experience He engages in discussions but might not always initiate or fully embrace these conversations He's reluctant to engage in such conversations and may prefer an instinctual approach

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Is My Boyfriend Selfish in Bed Quiz

Intimacy should be about both partners finding pleasure, but are you sometimes left wondering if your boyfriend is more concerned about his satisfaction than yours?  Take this "Is my boyfriend selfish in bed quiz" to determine whether it is the...

Intimacy should be about both partners finding pleasure, but are you sometimes left wondering if your boyfriend is more concerned about his satisfaction than yours?

Take this "Is my boyfriend selfish in bed quiz" to determine whether it is the case. Get ready to embark on a whimsical journey through the realm of passion and discover whether your partner is the giving lover you deserve!

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2. What first name or nickname would you like us to use?

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3. Does your boyfriend make an effort to ensure your comfort and well-being during intimate moments?

He prioritizes my comfort and well-being, actively checking in and ensuring a safe environment He's mindful of my comfort but might not always be as proactive in checking in He may not consistently ensure my comfort or well-being, prioritizing his own pleasure

4. How does your boyfriend respond to your cues and requests during intimate moments?

He listens attentively and adjusts his actions to accommodate my desires He tries to consider my requests but may not always respond effectively He sometimes ignores or dismisses my cues, prioritizing his own pleasure

5. When it comes to exploring new things in the bedroom, how open is your boyfriend to trying new experiences or fulfilling fantasies?

He's very open to exploring new experiences and fulfilling fantasies, prioritizing shared pleasure He's open to some experimentation but might be hesitant about certain activities He's resistant to trying new things and prefers sticking to familiar routines

6. How does your boyfriend handle feedback about your intimate life, particularly when you express desires for improvement or changes?

He welcomes feedback, actively seeks ways to enhance your intimate experiences, and values open communication While he may acknowledge feedback, he might find it challenging to consistently implement changes He tends to be resistant or dismissive of feedback, showing reluctance to make adjustments in your intimate life

7. How does your boyfriend respond to your post-intimacy needs, like cuddling and emotional connection?

He actively participates in cuddling and providing emotional support after lovemaking He's willing to engage in post-intimacy activities but might not always prioritize them He often prefers to disengage quickly or may not show a strong interest in post-intimacy bonding

8. How does your boyfriend react when you discuss the improvement of your intimate life or express your needs?

He's receptive, willing to address concerns, and actively seeks to enhance your intimate relationship He acknowledges the discussion but might not always take immediate action He may be dismissive or resistant to discussing improvements, prioritizing his own desires

9. Assess your boyfriend's attitude in the bedroom

He consistently prioritizes both your pleasure and his own, ensuring a satisfying experience for both While he's generally considerate, there are instances where his focus seems more on his own satisfaction He often displays a selfish attitude, prioritizing his desires without much concern for your needs

10. How frequently does your boyfriend initiate intimate moments or show a genuine interest in your desires and needs?

He frequently initiates intimacy and demonstrates a strong interest in satisfying my desires He initiates occasionally but may not consistently prioritize your needs He rarely initiates intimate moments and may focus primarily on his own satisfaction

11. How does your boyfriend respond to your requests for more emotional connection during intimate moments?

He gladly embraces emotional connection, understanding its importance in intimacy He acknowledges the request but may struggle to fully engage in emotional connection He may be uncomfortable with emotional connection and prefer a more physical focus

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