1. If your spouse comes home later than expected, do you think they are doing something wrong?
2. If you lost your wallet/purse, are you comfortable with your spouse looking through your personal space (drawers, closet, pockets, briefcase purse, etc.) to help you find it?
3. Does your spouse get angry when you ask for an explanation about arriving home late?
4. Does your spouse spend a lot of time with close friends and family members that do not like you?
5. Have you met friends and regular acquaintances of your spouse who were surprised to learn that you were married?
6. Do you suspect or know that your spouse has a secret bank account without your name?
7. Do you keep certain faults a secret from your spouse in fear that they might be used against you?
8. When you meet your spouse’s friends and relatives, do they speak about personal situations you shared in confidence with your spouse?
9. Are you comfortable with your spouse knowing all of your personal passwords and keys to locks?
10. When you apologize to your spouse for doing wrong, are you later reminded about what you had done after getting in an argument?
11. Do you feel you have to remind your spouse to complete important family-related tasks or do them yourself to ensure that they get done?
12. Do you feel comfortable making major purchases without consulting your spouse?
13. If your spouse won a million dollar lottery, would you be concerned about being divorced soon?
14. Do you both check each other’s phones?
15. Your partner says they are going on a business/work-related trip. How do you feel about it?
