1. If your spouse comes home later than expected do you tend to think that he/she is doing something wrong?
A. Always
B. Most of the time
C. Sometimes
D. Never
2. If you lost your wallet/purse, are you comfortable with your spouse looking through your personal space (drawers, closet, pockets, briefcase purse, etc.) to help you find it?
A. Always
B. Most of the time
C. Sometimes
D. Never
3. Does your spouse get angry when you ask for an explanation about arriving home late?
A. Always
B. Most of the time
C. Sometimes
D. Never
4. Does your spouse spend a lot of time with close friends and family members that clearly do not like you?
A. Always
B. Most of the time
C. Sometimes
D. Never
5. Have you met friends and regular acquaintances of your spouse who were surprised to learn that you were married?
A. Always
B. Most of the time
C. Sometimes
D. Never
6. Do you suspect or know that your spouse has a secret bank account without your name on it?
A. I Absolutely know it.
B. I highly suspected it.
C. It has crossed my mind.
D. There is no way.
7. Do you keep certain faults a secret from your spouse in fear that they might be used against you?
A. Always
B. Most of the time
C. Sometimes
D. Never
8. When you meet your spouse’s friends and relatives, do they speak about personal situations that you shared in confidence with your spouse?
A. Always
B. Most of the time
C. Sometimes
D. Never
9. Are you comfortable with your spouse knowing all of your personal passwords and keys to locks?
A. Always
B. Most of the time
C. Sometimes
D. Never
10. When you apologize to your spouse for doing wrong, are you later reminded about what you had done after getting in an argument?
A. Always
B. Most of the time
C. Sometimes
D. Never
11. Do you feel like you have to remind your spouse to complete important family related tasks or do them yourself just to make sure that they get done?
A. Always
B. Most of the time
C. Sometimes
D. Never
12. Do you feel comfortable making major purchases without consulting your spouse?
A. Always
B. Most of the time
C. Sometimes
D. Never
13. If your spouse won a million dollar lottery, would you be concerned about being divorced soon?
A. Absolutely
B. I have my suspicions
C. Not sure
D. No way
