1. Do your partner’s actions bother you?
2. It feels like your relationship doesn’t improve, no matter how hard you try.
3. How often do you fight about the same issues without resolution?
4. Do you threaten each other with a divorce when you fight?
5. How often do you fight over petty things?
6. Do you avoid telling your partner what you really feel because you fear criticism?
7. Do you avoid each other when you’re both at home?
8. Do you feel your relationship misses peacefulness, intimacy, connection, or excitement?
9. Do you think you could be happy if your partner changed?
10. Do you talk behind your partner’s back about their bad behavior?
11. Do you lack sexual and emotional intimacy in your relationship?
12. Are you afraid to bring up certain topics because an argument may blow up?
13. Do you or your partner keep secrets about important areas of your life?
14. When things go wrong, who do you rely on?
15. How do you spend your free time?
