We never see how our relationship really is until someone else reaches out to us and describes the picture how it looks to the others. We may be living in a toxic relationship and not knowing it. We get used to life and forget about our own well-being.
To know more, take this “Am I in a toxic relationship quiz”.
1. Are you going to be married 5 years from now?
A. Yes, with lots of kids
C. Hopefully but I'm not sure
D. Probably not
2. Do you know where your partner is most of the time?
A. Of course
B. Most of the time, but not as much as I would like to
C. Nope, they always say it is their business
D. Never. I never know where they are
3. Have they ever cheated on you?
B. No, I have seen them flirting sometimes
D. They did cheat on me
4. How do you handle finances?
A. We share everything equally
B. I pay for mine, they pay for theirs
C. They pay for everything
D. I pay for everything
5. How often do you have sex?
A. Almost every day
B. Three times a week
C. Once in a week or two
D. Once a month or less
6. Is the sex good?
B. Yeah, it's good
C. Could be better
D. I don't know why I'm even doing it?
7. Do you like someone else besides your partner?
A. Nope, my partner is my everything
B. Not really
C. I look at other people, it's normal
8. Does your partner listen to your POV unless they are extremely upset?
B. Most times, yes
C. Not always
9. My partner always blames me instead of taking responsibility of their actions. Do you agree?
B. Only once
10. Does your partner appreciate the things you do in the relationship?
A. Yes, always
D. None at all
11. Does your partner expect you to read their mind?
A. No, they communicate
D. Yes, they do not wish to communicate with me at all
12. When you are down or vulnerable, how does your partner react?
A. They are supportive
B. They stay close and try to understand
C. They often become distant
D. They shrug me off
13. How often do you have a friend's night out?
A. More than once a week
B. Once in a week or two
C. It happened a while ago
14. Would you describe your relationship as equal?
B. Somewhat equal
C. I do a little more than him
D. I do everything
15. Is your partner jealous?
B. A little, just enough to be cute
C. Yes, but I don't mind
D. Yes, a lot