Healthy relationships are a necessary part of healthy and successful living. Relationships enrich our lives and add to our enjoyment of being alive, but we all know that no relationship is perfect.
What is a healthy relationship?
A healthy relationship is a relationship that is filled with happiness, joy, and — most importantly — love. Humans are made to relate to others in a positive and enhancing way but it is unfortunate this isn’t always the case. In fact, sometimes, we allow the wrong kind of people to enter our life, and our relationship with them isn’t positive, healthy, or edifying and mostly, it isn’t fruitful also.
There are a few features of what a healthy relationship looks like-
When you are in a healthy relationship, you see your partner as your best friend. You are able to tell him or her anything bothering you. Both of you come up with ideas to solve problems affecting whether a partner or the relationship in general. Partners who act as friends and have a strong friendship have staying power. They love each other and they also genuinely like each other as best friends. They enjoy hanging out together, going on picnics, watching movies together and also enjoy doing things together.
2. Effective communication
You are in a healthy relationship when you are able to openly express your feelings and avoid burying hurt or anger. Both of you often deal with situations more effectively without wasting time.
Healthy relationships have good and effective communication structures. Unhealthy relationships have terrible communication structures between the partners.
It is a sign that you are in a healthy relationship if you and your partner speak the same language, emotionally speaking, physically speaking and intellectually speaking- this means that you should be able to communicate your needs, desires, griefs, and expectations effectively.
No partner should be timid, shy or scared about asserting themselves when required.
3. Trust and reliability
Trust is the most important element in a relationship, for, without trust, there cannot be a healthy relationship. Trust is the most important factor when it comes to determining if a relationship is healthy or unhealthy. You must be able to trust and rely on your partner, and your partner must be able to trust and rely on you.
Both of you should give each other the reason to trust each other.
Dependability is the definition of a healthy relationship. Couples in a relationship want to rely and depend upon each other. If partners in a relationship can do what they say and say what they do, it creates an atmosphere of trust and reliability by knowing their words and actions mean something to the other partner. Couples that rely on each other can both breathe a sigh of relief to know their partner has their back.
So, to build trust and reliability in a relationship, do not keep secrets from each other, do not cheat on each other and mostly do what you say and say what you do that does not make a promise you know you cannot fulfill.
It is a clear indicator that you are in a healthy relationship if your partner supports your individual lives outside the relationship. It is vital in a healthy relationship that you and your partner support each other’s’ goals and ambitions in life.
Relationships take constant work and require that you and your partner have a willingness and capability to work together, help each other achieve their goals, generate ideas together and most importantly grow in love together. Your partner should advise, work, support and help you reach the goals you want and the ambitions you are aiming in your life.
In a healthy relationship, your partner accepts you for who you are. He or she accepts and supports your lifestyle, friend, and family and most importantly, he is in full support of your goals and ambitions
5. You fight, forgive and forget each other wrongs
In a healthy relationship, conflicts, disagreements, and fights aren’t a deal breaker. Just because you disagree or argue with your partner doesn’t mean that it’s time to just break up and move on. Rather, the conflict is seen as an opportunity to learn more about the other partner and grow together in love and harmony.
Always remember that the one who is much closer to you, who you love and who loves you is more likely to hurt you because he or she is closer to you than anyone else. No one is perfect including you. If you know and understand this fact, you should easily forgive each other, their mistakes and discrepancies. Forgiving and forgetting means letting go offenses and hurts; not making snide remarks at them all the time.