1. How often do you tell your spouse details about your day in the evening?
2. What do you do when you get very angry and feel like yelling at your partner?
3. Can you calm down when you are angry and figure out what the real problem is?
4. How often do you tell your spouse what you appreciate about them and their behavior?
5. How often do you tell your partner what to do or how to do things?
6. How many times do you fight on a specific topic?
7. How happy are you with the resolution of a disagreement between you two?
8. Do you listen to your spouse when you are having an argument?
9. How good are you at fixing things that go wrong in your marriage?
10. Do you comfort your partner when they are concerned about something?
11. Do you include family or friends in your personal issues?
12. How often do you surprise each other?
13. Do you support each other in front of others?
14. What do you do when your partner is visibly upset?
15. Do you help your spouse in household chores?