1. Do you sit together and plan things out, or just follow orders?
2. Have you or they ever been sexually abusive?
3. Have you ever hit each other?
4. Do you argue regularly?
5. How well do you communicate with each other?
6. Do they or you force each other to do things?
7. How would you or them react if either of you expresses emotions or cries?
8. Do you or them feel obliged to do things as ordered?
9. Do you think you are allowed to do anything to your partner?
10. Do you see your partner as a friend, an antagonist, or a helper?