1. Are you not spending as much time as compared to before.
A. No, we still see each other regularly.
B. Yes, but it is only because he is busy.
2. Are there some changes with the way that he allows you to look at his phone?
A. Not really; he still asks me to get it for him.
B. I don’t think I have noticed anything different.
C. Yes, the password has changed.
3. Has he always been secretive?
A. He has always been mysterious.
B. There are moments when he would rather not say anything.
C. No, he used to be an “open book.”
4. Does he still post you on social media?
A. Yes, he has some random posts about me.
B. I still get tagged from time to time when he sees memes that remind him of me.
C. No. In fact, he tells me not to post about him too.
5. Has anyone who is closer to your partner started to act strange around you?
A. No one that I can think of.
B. I don’t think so, but I am not sure.
C. One/Some of his friends seem to want to avoid me.
6. Has he started to pay attention to his body more?
A. Not really.
B. He has always been conscious about the way that he looks.
C. Yes, he has been working out more often.
7. Has he been telling you stories about one particular person?
A. He has not been talking about anyone aside from the usual.
B. There are a few people that he mentions every now and then.
C. He has been telling me a few things about someone.
8. Does he immediately try to shower the moment that he goes inside the house?
A. He would rather eat first.
B. He would just do this after doing some sports.
C. He would barely nod his head at me before heading straight to the shower.
9. Has he ever cheated in the past?
A. No, he never cheated.
B. I had some suspicions, but they were never confirmed.
10. Have you not been having sex lately?
A. Our sex life is normal.
B. No, but he’s just tired.
C. Yes, something has changed.