Should You Start Thinking About Separation?

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20 Questions | Total Attempts: 5338 | Updated: Feb 24, 2022

1. Were children or pregnancy one of the reasons for the marriage?


Yes, that was the main reason
Yes, but we also thought we were in love
Maybe we got married only to have kids
No
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2. What first name or nickname would you like us to use?

You may optionally provide this to personalise your insights.

3. Are you happier when your partner is not around?


Yes, very
No, I miss them
Sometimes

4. Are you attracted to your partner (physically or emotionally)?


Yes
Only emotionally
Maybe sometimes
No, not at all

5. Do you ever have thoughts of harming your partner?


Yes, I have had
In the past, but not anymore
Sometimes
No, never

6. When there’s a dispute, do you or your partner keep asking ‘Should we get a divorce'?


Yes!
Sometimes
Not sure but it does happen
No, never

7. Does your partner emotionally, sexually, or physically abuse you?


Yes
Sometimes
No, never

8. Does your partner continuously degrade and disrespect you?


Only when we fight they insult and criticize me
They do say mean things
No, my partner is always respectful
Yes, all the time

9. Do you feel your partner is dominating or controlling you?


Yes
Sometimes
I don't think so
Never

10. Do you feel arguing with your partner is having a negative effect on your children? Is your partner a threat to you, your children, or your pets?


Yes, absolutely
Sometimes
They may not be a threat
Not applicable

11. Is this a second (or more) marriage for either or both of you?


Yes
No

12. Do you feel that you and your partner argue over small things?


Yes, all the time
Sometimes
No, we try to discuss them together
Never

13. Do you think you got married too young?


Yes
No

14. Has your partner ever cheated on you?


Yes and I can't move on from it
Only once but I've made my peace about it
I'm not sure
No, never

15. Have you tried marriage counseling?


Yes, many times with little success
Yes, but we have not been committed to it
No, but I could try it
Never

16. Do you think your partner is not committed to the marriage?


Yes, I feel disappointed with their lack of commitment
Sometimes
I think they try
No

17. If you were given a chance to do it all over again, would you still marry your spouse?


Yes
No

18. Does your partner have an addiction (such as alcohol, drugs, pornography, etc.)? 


Yes
Perhaps, but it's so much as an addiction
I'm not sure
No

19. Do you ever have thoughts of harming yourself to get out of your marriage?


Yes, I feel miserable
Sometimes
I may have had
No

20. Do you have any feelings of frustration about your marriage?


Yes, I am totally fed up with my marriage
Sometimes I feel I have no more energy to fight for it
I'm confused about my feelings
Never

21. Do you and your partner aspire be together, to build a life and future together?


Yes, we share a willingness to sacrifice for each other
Only I do / they do
I'm not sure
No, not at all
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