1. Is having a career important to the both of you?
A. Yes, and we both support each other's careers
B. I love my career, but they are only interested in theirs
C. They have a career but I am not very ambitious about mine
D. I don't know what they do for a living
2. Has your partner ever cheated on you?
A. No, never
B. I don't think so, but it's always possible
C. Yes, but that was a long time ago
D. Yes, a couple of times, but nothing serious
3. Have you ever talked about having children?
A. Yes, we agreed about this a long time ago
B. Yes, and I want to have children, but they are reluctant
C. Yes, and the debate is still on the table
D. No, we will think of it someday
4. How long have you been together?
A. More than 2 years
B. One year
C. On and off, for 2 years
D. We just met
5. How often do you argue?
A. Once or twice a month, but it's mostly conversation, not fighting
B. A couple of times a week, but we settle very fast
C. Almost every day, but never bad fights or insults
D. Very often, and we don't talk for days
6. Have you ever imagined being married to your partner?
A. Yes, every day
B. I imagine it, but I am a little afraid to do it
C. I don't imagine marriage
D. Yes, I have and I am not very happy about it
7. How do you handle financial decisions?
A. We discuss and decide together
B. One of us usually makes the decisions
C. We avoid talking about finances
D. We have frequent disagreements about money
8. How do your values and beliefs align?
A. We share similar values and beliefs
B. There are some differences, but we respect them
C. We rarely discuss our values and beliefs
D. Our differing values often cause conflicts
9. How do you spend your free time together?
A. We have many shared interests and activities
B. We occasionally find activities we both enjoy
C. We mostly pursue separate interests
D. We struggle to find enjoyable activities to do together
10. How do you resolve conflicts in your relationship?
A. We discuss openly and find a compromise
B. We usually cool off before discussing
C. Conflicts often remain unresolved
D. Conflicts escalate and are frequently hurtful
11. How do you envision your future together?
A. We have clear and shared goals for our future
B. We have some individual goals but support each other
C. We haven't discussed our future in depth
D. Our visions for the future are quite different
12. Is your partner the first person you call when you're in trouble or have great news?
A. Yes, I call my partner first, then others
B. I call my mom first, then my partner
C. I don't call when I am having a bad day, as they don't react well
D. No, I keep things to myself
13. How would you describe your partner?
A. Sensitive, loving, caring, funny
B. Original, foolish, charming
C. Just a normal person
D. Nothing special compared to others
14. Is your partner supportive when you have a conflict with others?
A. Yes but they tell me later if they think I was in the wrong
B. Yes, but only if they think I am right
C. They never take sides
D. They never support me
15. Do you daydream about your partner?
A. Yes, almost every day
B. Sometimes, I can see us together in the distant future
C. I daydream but not about things related to my partner
D. Never
