1. How often do little arguments turn into ugly fights filled with accusations, name calling and criticisms?
A. Never
B. Rarely
C. Often
D. Very often
2. My partner regularly criticizes my opinions and feelings.
A. Strongly disagree
B. Disagree
C. Agree
D. Strongly agree
3. I hold back from telling my partner what I really think and feel.
A. Strongly disagree
B. Disagree
C. Agree
D. Strongly agree
4. Rate your satisfaction of your marriage in: household chores.
A. 9-10
B. 6-8
C. 3-5
D. 0-2
5. I feel lonely in this relationship.
A. Strongly disagree
B. Disagree
C. Agree
D. Strongly agree
6. Rate your satisfaction of your marriage in: money management.
A. 9-10
B. 6-8
C. 3-5
D. 0-2
7. When we argue, one of us backs down, doesn’t want to talk about it anymore, or leaves the conversation.
A. Never
B. Rarely
C. Often
D. Very often
8. Rate your satisfaction of your marriage in: intimacy and sexuality. (0=highly dissatisfied, 10=highly satisfied)
A. 9-10
B. 6-8
C. 3-5
D. 0-2
9. Rate your satisfaction of your marriage in: appreciation/affection.
A. 9-10
B. 6-8
C. 3-5
D. 0-2
10. Rate your satisfaction of your marriage in: lifestyle.
A. 9-10
B. 6-8
C. 3-5
D. 0-2