What is your communication like with your wife?

Just routine communication, but it doesn’t seem like she’s ever excited to talk to me or goes out of her way to communicate

Most of our communication is arguing over stupid things

Do you feel like your wife cares about you and your feelings?

I think she cares about me, but I am honestly not sure anymore

No, if I try to confront her about it, she always finds a way to try to turn it around to me

No, she doesn’t ever consider me or my feelings with how she is acting. It seems like she is just living her life as if I don’t exist

Does she try to spend time with you?

We do spend time together, but it is not like it used to be, and sometimes I feel like it’s just routine without enjoyment

She spends a lot less time at home in general and seems like she avoids me when she does get home

How is your sex life?

We still have sex, but she doesn’t seem to enjoy it like she used to

It seems like she avoids being intimate in any way

We don’t have sex, and I don’t even want to try because she looks so uninterested any time I see her

Do you still go out of your way to do things that you know would make her happy or that you know she enjoys?

Not really, I guess life has just gotten busy

I try, but she doesn’t react how she used to. She seems annoyed when I try

No, because it looks like my existence just frustrates her in general

Is she proud of the person you have become?

I think so, but I guess I have been focused a lot on myself and haven’t really made her a priority because I was focused on other things

She used to be, but suddenly things changed

No, she has tried to tell me for a long time that I may be moving in the wrong direction or losing my way, but I haven’t really paid attention to that

Does she ever tell you that you treat her differently now than you did when you first got married?

Sometimes. Maybe I should have listened

She seems to be the one treating me differently

Yes, but she doesn’t understand how busy I am sometimes and how demanding life can be

Who manages most of the household duties?

I feel like recently I have been doing most of it

She has done most of the cooking/cleaning/shopping/child care

Is My Wife Starting to Hate Me Quiz

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10 Questions | Total Attempts: 584 | Updated: Feb 24, 2022

Are there signs you have noticed lately that make you wonder if your wife loves you or not? Does it seem like you can do nothing right, and everything you do seems to annoy her? Does it seem more like she hates you than loves you? In a marriage, you never want to feel like your wife is starting to hate you, but sometimes you find yourself in a place where you are wondering if this is happening and don’t know what to make of it. There could be different reasons for her behavior, such as losing interest in you, or maybe she has started developing interest in someone else. It could also be that something has happened in your relationship that she can’t get over and has begun to hate you for it. Take this quiz today to find out if your wife is starting to hate you.