1. Do you know what their number one fear is?
2. Does your partner pay attention when you talk about your day?
3. What do they emphasize the most when they brag about you?
4. Does it bother them that you are, in some ways, smarter than them?
5. Is your partner the first person you want to tell when something big happens?
6. Do they offer to step up and handle errands and domestic tasks for you if you have a tight deadline?
7. Do they discuss your individual long-term goals as frequently as they discuss your shared goals?
8. Can they disagree with you respectfully on topics where disagreement is possible?
9. Have they ever suggested that you change your hair or style?
10. Lastly, do they brag about you to other people?
