1. Is she more likely to come around when she needs money or wants a free meal as opposed to being consistent with making plans to hang out with you?
2. Do you feel you are always chasing after her trying to make plans and she is slowly fading away or becoming uninterested?
3. Do you hang out more in a group or just the two of you?
4. Do you feel a genuine connection and attraction between the two of you?
5. Does she seem to blow you off and when she does finally contact you, it is because she needs something?
6. When you put the moves on her, does she flirt back?
7. Does she display certain body language that makes you feel like she is into you (i.e. fixing her hair, positioning her body in your direction/closer to you, straightening her clothes, reapplying makeup/lipstick, etc.)?
8. Do you feel like she treats you more like a friend or a lover?
9. Have other people in your life questioned her intentions or made comments about her using you or taking you for granted?
10. Do you feel used by her?
11. Does she often keep her life private and you only know a few parts of it?
12. Does she show emotional connection?
13. Do you feel she manipulates you often?
14. Does the relationship feel one-sided?
15. Do you pay all her bills?
