Is She My Friend Or Girlfriend Quiz

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10 Questions | Total Attempts: 131 | Updated: Jul 10, 2025
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Is She My Friend or Girlfriend Quiz

You laugh together, talk often, and maybe even have inside jokes — but you’re not quite sure what you are to each other. Are you just really close friends, is there something more happening under the surface, or are you basically already in a relationship without the label?

This quiz will help you decode her signals and your connection. Based on your answers, you’ll find out if you're firmly in the friend zone, standing at the edge of something more, or already acting like a couple without realizing it.

Let’s find out where you stand.

Questions Excerpt

1. How does she behave around you when you're with a group of friends?

A. She treats me like everyone else — friendly but neutral

B. She gives me special attention or sneaks in private jokes

C. She’s noticeably more reserved around me in front of others

2. Who usually initiates your conversations?

A. I usually start the conversations

B. It's pretty balanced — we both reach out

C. She often initiates just to chat or check in

3. How does she respond to physical touch (e.g., playful nudges, hugs)?

A. She seems awkward or avoids it

B. She’s totally fine with it — doesn’t shy away

C. She initiates physical contact sometimes

4. Has she introduced you to her close friends or family?

A. No not really

B. Yes casually — like during hangouts

C. Yes she’s gone out of her way to include me

5. How does she react when you mention dating or someone you're interested in?

A. She seems indifferent or changes the topic

B. She gets curious and asks questions

C. She looks uncomfortable or subtly jealous

6. What’s your communication like?

A. We talk occasionally mostly in person or on group chats

B. We text often with long convos here and there

C. We talk daily share memes and have deep late-night chats -

7. How do you usually hang out?

A. Always in group settings

B. Sometimes one-on-one sometimes with others

C. Mostly just the two of us — we plan time together

8. Does she compliment you or give you flirty vibes?

A. Only as a friend nothing romantic

B. Occasionally she compliments me in subtle ways

C. She’s openly flirty or affectionate

9. Has anyone else ever commented on your dynamic with her?

A. Nope — they treat us like regular friends

B. A few people have said we’d be cute together

C. Everyone assumes we’re already a couple

10. If you asked her on a date tomorrow, what do you honestly think she'd say?

A. Let’s just stay friends

B. I didn’t expect that... but maybe

C. I thought you’d never ask


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