Infidelity Quiz: Will Your Relationship Survive Infidelity?

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15 Questions | Total Attempts: 1843 | Updated: Jul 24, 2024
1. Has the affair stopped?

Yes, it is definitely over
Yes, but it still affects our relationship
Not sure
No
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2. Does the cheating partner still have secrets?

Yes
No, he or she has shared all the details of their past affair
Probably not
Probably yes
3. Is the cheating partner willing to answer questions related to the affair?

Absolutely
Most times yes
Not really
Not at all
4. Does the cheating partner show sincere regret and remorse?

Yes
Most times yes
Not really
Not at all
5. Is the betrayed partner able to control their rage and disappointment?

Yes
Most times yes
Not really
Not at all
6. Has the talk about the affair taken over your lives?

No, we can still concentrate on other things
No, but we do talk about it a lot
Sometimes so it seems
Yes
7. Do you think you have rebuilt trust in your relationship?

Yes
I think yes
Not sure
Not at all
8. How often do you do things you enjoyed doing together before the affair?

Very often
Sometimes
Occasionally
Rarely
9. Does the betrayed partner play detective?

Not at all
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
10. Is this infidelity the worst thing that has ever happened to you?

No, it is just a part of my life
It is one of the worst things
Probably yes
Definitely
11. Are you willing to forgive your partner?

Yes
No
I might, but it will take time
I can try
12. Why do you think the partner cheated?

Looking for sex
Unhappy in marriage
Emotionally dissatisfied with marriage
It’s a recurring habit
13. How would you rate your relationship in terms of happiness?

Happy
Alright
Slightly complicated
A mess
14. Have you both survived tough times together before?

We always do
Yes, we have
We haven’t
We have never experienced tough times before
15. How willing are you to work on this relationship?

I want to save it
I want both of us to work on it
I am entirely invested
I don’t think I have the desire to work on it
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