1. Does the cheating partner still have secrets?
A. Yes
B. No, he or she has shared all the details of their past affair
C. Probably not
D. Probably yes
2. Is the cheating partner willing to answer questions related to the affair?
A. Absolutely
B. Most times yes
C. Not really
D. Not at all
3. Does the cheating partner show sincere regret and remorse?
A. Yes
B. Most times yes
C. Not really
D. Not at all
4. Is the betrayed partner able to control their rage and disappointment?
A. Yes
B. Most times yes
C. Not really
D. Not at all
5. Has the talk about the affair taken over your lives?
A. No, we can still concentrate on other things
B. No, but we do talk about it a lot
C. Sometimes so it seems
D. Yes
6. Do you think you have rebuilt trust in your relationship?
A. Yes
B. I think yes
C. Not sure
D. Not at all
7. How often do you do things you enjoyed doing together before the affair?
A. Very often
B. Sometimes
C. Occasionally
D. Rarely
8. Does the betrayed partner play detective?
A. Not at all
B. Rarely
C. Sometimes
D. Often
9. Is this infidelity the worst thing that has ever happened to you?
A. No, it is just a part of my life
B. It is one of the worst things
C. Probably yes
D. Definitely
10. Has the affair stopped?
A. Yes, it is definitely over
B. Yes, but it still affects our relationship
C. Not sure
D. No
