Most times, staying with someone after they have cheated on you and still have a rewarding relationship seems impossible. Yet, many couples are doing this for multiple reasons:
Staying together for children.
Avoiding the hassle of breaking up, or, better yet.
Simply being able to get over hardships and go on no matter how hard it gets.
If you are perplexed about your relationship, then take this quiz to find out will your relationship survive infidelity!
1. Does the cheating partner still have secrets?
A. Yes
B. No, he or she has shared all the details of their past affair
C. Probably not
D. Probably yes
2. Is the cheating partner willing to answer questions related to the affair?
A. Absolutely
B. Most times yes
C. Not really
D. Not at all
3. Are you willing to forgive your partner?
A. Yes
B. No
C. I might, but it will take time
D. I can try
4. Why do you think the partner cheated?
A. Looking for sex
B. Unhappy in marriage
C. Emotionally dissatisfied with marriage
D. It’s a recurring habit
5. How would you rate your relationship in terms of happiness?
A. Happy
B. Alright
C. Slightly complicated
D. A mess
6. Have you both survived tough times together before?
A. We always do
B. Yes, we have
C. We haven’t
D. We have never experienced tough times before
7. How willing are you to work on this relationship?
A. I want to save it
B. I want both of us to work on it
C. I am entirely invested
D. I don’t think I have the desire to work on it
8. Does the cheating partner show sincere regret and remorse?
A. Yes
B. Most times yes
C. Not really
D. Not at all
9. Is the betrayed partner able to control their rage and disappointment?
A. Yes
B. Most times yes
C. Not really
D. Not at all
10. Has the talk about the affair taken over your lives?
A. No, we can still concentrate on other things
B. No, but we do talk about it a lot
C. Sometimes so it seems
D. Yes
11. Do you think you have rebuilt trust in your relationship?
A. Yes
B. I think yes
C. Not sure
D. Not at all
12. How often do you do things you enjoyed doing together before the affair?
A. Very often
B. Sometimes
C. Occasionally
D. Rarely
13. Does the betrayed partner play detective?
A. Not at all
B. Rarely
C. Sometimes
D. Often
14. Is this infidelity the worst thing that has ever happened to you?
A. No, it is just a part of my life
B. It is one of the worst things
C. Probably yes
D. Definitely
15. Has the affair stopped?
A. Yes, it is definitely over
B. Yes, but it still affects our relationship
C. Not sure
D. No
