1. Do you find yourself always second-guessing things you do or say because of how he makes you feel?
2. Does he ever insult you, call you names or put you down?
3. Does he make time for you as much as you do for him?
4. Does he do little things just to let you know he cares and that he’s thinking about you?
5. Do you feel like you have low self-esteem that prevents you from standing up for yourself?
6. Does he ever make you feel like you could never do better than him or that no one else would ever want you?
7. Do you try to tell him how you feel and he refuses to acknowledge his bad behavior towards you or tries to turn it around on you instead?
8. Do other people ever say anything about the way he treats you?
9. Do you feel like your marriage is unhealthy?
10. Has your marriage caused you to feel frequently anxious, sad, lonely, or other negative feelings?
