1. Do you find yourself regretting your relationship?
2. Do you still want to be intimate with your husband?
3. Do you intentionally do things to make your husband upset or angry?
4. Do you criticize your husband’s flaws?
5. Do you pay attention to your husband?
6. Do you leave arguments unresolved?
7. Do you often think about your bad experiences with your husband?
8. Do you feel heard by your husband?
9. Is your husband excelling while you are not?
10. Do they provoke you even when they aren’t trying to?
11. Are you usually quiet but not comfortably quiet?
12. Do you show signs of passive-aggressive behavior towards him?
13. Do you flip out often when they try to talk?
14. Has your relationship dissolved into a ‘roommate’ situation?
15. Do you tend to make disparaging remarks about something he enjoys?
