How do you approach conflicts in your relationship?

With open communication and a solution-focused mindset

By discussing but sometimes avoiding tough topics

I tend to avoid conflicts or let my partner lead the resolution

What's your attitude towards your partner's personal growth?

I actively encourage and support their goals and hobbies

I'm supportive but don't get involved much

I acknowledge it, but I'm not actively involved

How do you contribute to keeping the romance alive?

I plan regular date nights and surprises

I enjoy when my partner plans romantic gestures, and I reciprocate

I'm not very proactive in planning, but I enjoy the moments

How often do you initiate conversations about the future?

Frequently, I believe in setting goals together

Sometimes, but I follow my partner's lead

Rarely, I prefer to go with the flow

What's your approach to dealing with your partner's concerns?

I listen carefully and work together to find solutions

I listen and provide comfort, but solving them is challenging

I tend to get overwhelmed and hope they resolve on their own

How do you handle your own personal issues that affect the relationship?

I communicate openly and seek solutions that benefit us both

I share my issues but struggle with finding solutions

I keep them to myself to avoid burdening my partner

How do you show appreciation for your partner?

Through verbal affirmation and thoughtful gestures

I say thank you but don't often make grand gestures

I'm not great at expressing it, but I do appreciate them

How proactive are you in learning and growing together?

I seek out activities and experiences for us to grow

I'm open to trying new things if my partner suggests them

I don't actively seek out new experiences

How do you deal with external pressures affecting your relationship?

I strategize with my partner to manage them effectively

I offer support, but finding solutions is hard

I tend to worry alone and hope for the best

How often do you discuss and act on improving your relationship?

Regularly, always looking for ways to enhance our bond

Occasionally, when my partner brings it up

Rarely, I believe things will improve on their own

Are You Leading Positive Change in Your Relationship Quiz

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10 Questions | Total Attempts: 17 | Updated: Mar 03, 2024

Change is the only constant in life, and this holds true for relationships as well. Positive change can elevate your relationship to new heights of understanding, happiness, and fulfillment. But are you the catalyst for this growth? Take our quiz to discover if you're leading positive change in your relationship and how your actions contribute to its development and depth.