Am I Demisexual Quiz?

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Am I Demisexual Quiz?

When it comes to sexual orientation, there are so many different subcategories of broader categories that it is hard to really understand them all at once. Have you explored different sexual identity roles and are confused about which one best fits your desires and feelings toward a relationship? You are not alone. 

Navigating through all of these aspects of your sexual identity could be confusing and uncertain, but the answers you are looking for are all out there, and you will find them in time. 

If you are confused between asexual, graysexual, and demisexual, take this short 'Am I Demisexual quiz' to see which is most in line with your thoughts, beliefs, and desires when it comes to sexual relationships.

Questions Excerpt

1. Do you typically have a sexual preference when it comes to dating?

A. Yes, I prefer to go with my gut

B. No, emotional connection is the biggest thing for me

C. On very rare occasions

2. When thinking about the future, what type of relationship would you prefer?

A. A relationship based on a deep emotional and intellectual bond

B. A relationship with strong physical attraction and chemistry

C. A balance between emotional connection and physical attraction

3. How do you typically view physical affection (like kissing or hugging) early in a relationship?

A. I'm not comfortable with physical affection until there's emotional closeness

B. I'm open to it early on if there's physical chemistry

C. I'm okay with it, but I prefer there to be some emotional connection first

4. Do you feel like your approach to relationships is different from most people?

A. Yes, I need more emotional depth before I feel attracted to someone

B. No, I feel I experience attraction like most people do

C. Sometimes—I'm not always as quick to feel attraction as others

5. How do you feel when your friends talk about finding people attractive right away?

A. I don't always relate, as an attraction for me comes much later

B. I completely understand and often feel the same

C. I get it, but I don't always experience attraction that quickly

6. When someone flirts with you in social settings, how do you usually respond?

A. I'm indifferent unless I already know them well

B. I enjoy it and might flirt back even if we just met

C. It depends on the person—I might respond if there's a connection

7. What is the most important thing for you in a relationship?

A. Personal bond

B. Emotional compatibility

C. Friendship between the two

8. How long do you wait before getting physically intimate with someone don't know much about?

A. It takes me a long while before developing feelings for someone

B. There is no fixed timeline as I just go with my gut

C. I am not necessarily interested in having sex to build a bond with someone

9. How often do you experience sexual attraction towards someone?

A. I don’t constantly experience sexual attraction

B. It happens often but I don’t always act on it

C. Never

10. Is your ideal relationship one that involves old-school notions of love and courting?

A. Yes, isn’t that everyone’s goal

B. No, that isn’t necessarily what my goal is

C. Never

11. Do you typically have a sexual preference for dating?

A. Not typically

B. No, emotional connection is the biggest thing for me

C. No, I prefer no sexual connection

12. Do you feel that sometimes you have an emotional bond with someone but don’t necessarily want a romantic relationship with them?

A. Yes, sometimes sex is essential, and sometimes it’s not. It’s usually not a big factor for me that plays into things.

B. Yes, I could feel an emotional bond and still not want a sexual or romantic relationship with them. It all depends.

C. Romantic relationships aren’t really my priority.

13. Do you ever have sex with someone you aren’t sexually attracted to?

A. Sometimes

B. Never

C. Yes

14. Do you ever feel like you experience sexual attraction to others less frequently than other people your age?

A. Yes, all the time

B. Sometimes, but mostly because I place a lot of weight on developing an emotional connection first. So, I understand.

C. No, I can be attracted to anyone, anytime

15. Do you ever feel a sexual connection towards someone you just met or barely know?

A. No, not typically

B. No, never. I have to know how we relate on an emotional level before I can be attracted to them sexually

C. Yes

16. Does your emotional connection dictate how attracted you are to someone?

A. Sometimes

B. Yes, all the time

C. Not really

17. Which of these is most important to you in a relationship?

A. Genuine connection

B. How well we get along on a daily basis

C. Their personality maybe

18. How long do you typically wait before having sex with a new partner?

A. Whenever I feel the time is right, but it usually just happens. Sometimes I just have to feel close enough to them

B. When I feel emotionally attracted to them, I usually feel sexually attracted, as well.

C. Sex is not a priority at all to me. If I find someone sexually appealing, then I'll probably have the desire to have sex with them.

19. Is sex just a part of a relationship for you or at the top of your list of priorities when it comes to dating?

A. I rarely experience sexual attraction. It’s not an intense feeling for me.

B. I believe being attracted to someone is the most important thing, regardless of whether we have sex or not.

C. I experience little to no sexual attraction most of the time. It’s about finding someone appealing to me.

20. Is your ideal relationship one that involves the traditional ideas of falling in love and intense romance?

A. Yes, isn’t that everyone’s goal?

B. No, that isn’t necessarily my goal

C. Yes, I would prefer a relationship with anyone I want to

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