10 Of The Best Lesbian Sex Toys

Introducing toys into the bedroom can spice up your sex life no matter what your sexual orientation. But many sex toys are heteronormative based on the assumption that the person or people involved are heterosexual, and therefore designed to mimic heterosexual sex (whatever that is!).

Lesbians and bisexual women may have to hunt around for sex toys that work for them. Read on to find out about the 10 best lesbian sex toys.

1. A quality silicone dildo

Nothing beats a good silicone dildo they versatile, easy to clean, fun to use.

If you want to avoid something overly penis-shaped, you can find dildos in all kinds of fun shapes. Some dildos are designed to be used with a strap-on harness or without.

For extra excitement, get a double-ended dildo that you and your partner can use at the same time!

2. The thigh-harness dildo

Like a strap-on, but meant to be worn on your thigh while your gal rides on top.

These can be easier to control than strap-ons, and they present a good alternative for ladies who like penetrative sex but want to avoid the heteronormativity of a strap-on. Like the strap-on, there are a variety of types and materials to choose from.

3. Finger vibrators

From silicon sheaths that slip over one finger and have textured surfaces to more complex apparatuses that strap onto your wrist and have vibrating tips for each finger, these are a great way to provide direct, interesting stimulation to yourself or your partner.

4. Bullet vibrators

The bullet vibe deserves a place of honor in any nightstand drawer not just on a list of the best lesbian sex toys.

The bullet is great for lesbian couples though because you can do so much with it. It can be used for direct clitoral stimulation on its own or laid against the labia and clitoris during penetrative sex. You can use a bullet vibe internally while manually stimulating your partner’s clitoris and labia, too.

And let’s not forget using it either externally or internally during oral sex!

5. The classic strap-on

Ok, I know what we just said about moving beyond heteronormative toys. But the strap-on is a classic lesbian sex toy.

Designed to be worn by one partner while penetrating the other, a strap on can be part of mind-blowing sex. There is an unbelievable number of different types of dildo, harness, and strap-on accessories out there to choose from. Take your time and find something that works for you and your partners.

 6. Clitoral stimulators

Whether you choose something simple like a handheld stimulator that using a sucking mechanism, or something more whimsical like the Sqweel (a rotating wheel of silicone tongues), a clitoral stimulator can really enhance the pleasure.

Unlike bullet and finger vibes which, well, vibrate, clitoral stimulators use a variety of motions and sensations. These are great used on their own, during mutual masturbation, or during penetrative sex with fingers or other toys.

7. A shared vibrator or dildo

Sold under names such as “feel-do,” shared vibrators and dildos are meant to be used by two partners at the same time. This can look a variety of different ways, but the most common is for the toy to have a piece that fits inside the partner who is using it on their partner.

For instance, some shared dildos work like strapless strap-ons, instead of being held in place by a smaller dildo that goes inside the wearer’s vagina.

These can take a little bit of getting used to the first few times, but they provide for pleasure for both partners. A simple double-headed dildo is a more low-tech version but just as fun, hence why it’s on our list of the best lesbian sex toys.

8. G-spot stimulators

One of the best lesbian sex toys or sex toys for anyone with a vagina is a G-spot stimulator.

Whether you choose a handheld vibrator with a stimulator built-in or a toy built specially for G-spot stimulation, you can’t go wrong. Stimulation of the G-spot leads to intense orgasm and even to ejaculation in many women.

While you can stimulate that magic spot with your fingers, using a stimulator gives you more control and can provide more direct and intense stimulation.

9. A good lube

Ok, technically it’s not a toy, but you should never use sex toys without a good lube.

It will turn any sex toy into one of the best lesbian sex toys.  Water-Based lube is a great choice since it’s safe for toys of many different materials, such as latex, hard plastic, or silicone. Even if you think you won’t need it — you will. Use lube generously no matter what kinds of toy you’re using.

10. A good sex toy wash

There’s nothing sexy about getting an infection from an improperly cleaned sex toy. Always use a good quality sex toy wash.

These products are made to be safe for the various materials your toys might be made of, unlike your standard hand soap or other household soap. Clean your toys every time you use them. Some silicone and glass toys can be boiled or run through the dishwasher too.